Should I just have sex to get it over with?

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  • Wasn't for me. I agree that if there's ever a time to be weird that's probably a common one but there's no reason it just has to be weird. It's very circumstantial.

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    • I think a lot of guys make the fool move during their first time by ditching foreplay, i did it and it turns out I had a thicc one so I caused legitimate damage when lube isnt plentiful.

      Still dont know how that even socially registers. If you caused damage to your partner solely based on sexual performance should that be taken as an achievement or guilt? I got bruised bottoms of my feet from this 😅😅😂😂

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      • My first time was also the girl's first time and she was very much so in the mood because she trusted me, we had been doing other stuff for months, and we weren't nervous about it at all.

        It actually went really well, far from the worst, and definitely wasn't weird. It just felt like the natural progression of things rather than some weird experiment or task. I think that's what set it apart. We were just doing what we wanted to and not trying to prove anything to ourselves, each other, or the world.

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