You can decide for yourself. If you wait there is no garantee you actually will have sex later (so if you think its really important I think you should, of course it must be consensual) but I also don't think its "necessary" to get over with it.
You sound like you mainly want it because you're insecure, remember you can base your self worth on other things. I'm sure you have other good qualities to be proud of. And maybe you can look for ways contribute something to those around you (at any level, whether its friends, job, your family, society as a whole, adopting a pet etc.) Maybe try creating something like art if you're creative. Maybe try some other type of accomplishment like improving in a sport of your choosing or learn to play an instrument. Don't pretend to you want someone as a girlfriend if you only want sex, but some people actually just want casual sex
Should I just have sex to get it over with?
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You can decide for yourself. If you wait there is no garantee you actually will have sex later (so if you think its really important I think you should, of course it must be consensual) but I also don't think its "necessary" to get over with it.
You sound like you mainly want it because you're insecure, remember you can base your self worth on other things. I'm sure you have other good qualities to be proud of. And maybe you can look for ways contribute something to those around you (at any level, whether its friends, job, your family, society as a whole, adopting a pet etc.) Maybe try creating something like art if you're creative. Maybe try some other type of accomplishment like improving in a sport of your choosing or learn to play an instrument. Don't pretend to you want someone as a girlfriend if you only want sex, but some people actually just want casual sex