Should i hookup with this guy?

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A few weeks ago, I hung out with this guy I went to high school with. We had a nice time, walked around outside talking, had ice cream, then ended up on the soccer field in the middle of the night. I gave him a bj and we made out. I really enjoyed it.

Tomorrow night he wants to hang out again and he kinda hinted at maybe doing more. And I really want to. If I do, it will be my first time. I'm really excited more than anything. I'm not really nervous. I really like him, and we get along pretty well.

But after that I'm going to be probably really worried about getting pregnant, even though we WILL be using protection. If he's not, then I'm not doing it. I'm not on birth control, I feel like that's even more complicated. Should I get plan b just in case? I'm on my period now, so I don't really know how that's gonna work out.

Other than that, I'm actually really comfortable with doing this. What do you think?

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  • sillygirl77
    7 years ago

    Why would you want your first time to be so hasty? Why not take some time and get to know the guy?

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Damn girl, slow your roll.

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  • charli.m
    7 years ago

    If you have this level of worry and lack of knowledge about how birth control and your menstrual cycle works re conception, you're probably not ready to have sex.

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  • Kookulainamus
    7 years ago

    It's time for you to keep condoms in your purse. You must be protected when reproductive urges overwhelm you.

    Buy a pack of condoms today.

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  • Cutie12345
    4 years ago

    ok so basically this is what I think is happening. The first time you guys meet you’re both unsure of what is going to happen. But if you give him stuff on the first time his mindset basically changes and now all he wants you for is sex. And he will do anything for it. So if you want sex with this guy, go for it but make sure you are ready and you understand that he probably doesn’t actually have any romantic feelings for you.

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  • youngkitten
    7 years ago

    It's not necessarily hasty. Do what makes you feel happy. If he does? Go ahead. Always have your own protection on guard. If he doesn't wish to use a condom, ensure you have your protection. If he truly cares for and respects you he'll do his part in using a condom if that makes you more comfortable

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  • jethro
    7 years ago

    Wait a minute. I thought that you were already afraid that you were pregnant from some other guy who was fingering you after you gave him a BJ on that same soccer field. Just how many guys have you screwed on that soccer field? Better yet can I drop by and get a piece of that action? You need to become a better troll by changing your stories more. Or at least wait a few weeks between repeated posts.

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  • kla631
    7 years ago

    Yes, get the plan B pill and also buy condoms. Can't rely on him buying them.

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  • sancastlecube
    7 years ago

    Oh never fucking mind, you assholes. Its the same person btw. I'm probably not doing it anyway.

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