Should i go out with this guy?

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im like totally stalkerishly (but not really) crazy for this guy!

his entire being just makes me smile.
i cant help but be happy around him.
and when im sad and crying in a corner he is always there for me.
he is a bit awkward.
kinda sensitive.
but i still like him.

im a senior in high school. he is a freshman

personally i dont care about that.

i just know that i want to go out with him but EVERYONE I KNOW is all like "Dont Do It! Senior + Freshman Relationships Never Work!"
i dont think so...

what would you do???

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  • fexiibabie
    12 years ago | pl

    If he makes you happy, go for it. The people youre happy and comfortable around are the ones you need to be with. The guy that is always there now, always will be then. i think you should try it out.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    go out with him

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  • peterrabbyt3
    6 years ago | pl

    Suck the young fellow off!

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    just because you're 3/4 years apart, doesn't mean anything. I know a friend whose parents are 12 years apart, and the mom's older. You're not taking it too far. Go for it :)

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  • feather0612
    11 years ago | pl

    go for it. It's a possibility it'll be one of your best relationships ever. younger guys try harder to impress you when they really like you, and they usually turn out to be real sweethearts. if he makes you happy why wouldn't you?

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  • Monster93
    11 years ago | pl

    Well i cant really say anything cause im a senior and a freshman girl likes me and hopefully we will get together and it'll work out. So why shouldnt it work out for you? Go for it and if you guys truely love each other then it will work out perfectly :)

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago | pl

    try being good friends w/o anticipation for more. after all, friendship is the foundation for 'more than friends'. bear in mind, that this could be hard bcuz you're way more mature than him; on top of that, girls mature faster than boys anyway. I know bcuz i've dated someone younger thane b4 and it ended up being really annoying sometimes. at times I felt moe like a mom than a gf!! what about next year when ur in college (assuminf ur going) if it turns out to be a long distance relationship while you're around so man different new guys in such a new environment, the odds are very close to zero, realisticly. i'm not saying it's impossible, but really the odds are stacked against you!

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  • KokoroComplex
    12 years ago | pl

    DO IT!!

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  • BraveNewWorld
    12 years ago | pl

    Yeah, it may not work out, but I say go with it. Why kill the potential relationship before it starts? You obviously like him, and though I can't really see into his head, but I'm guessing, if he doesn't like you already, he'll definitely give you a chance.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    I'm not from America so I could be wrong, but isn't freshman like 14 and senior is like 18?

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    • KokoroComplex
      12 years ago | pl

      Yes, Freshman is 14-15 and senior year is 17-18.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago | pl

        Wow, I'm surprised how many people said to do it. I think when you're older like 24 and he's 20 yeah, okay, but 14?! Might as well date a 10 y.o.

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        • KokoroComplex
          12 years ago | pl

          I know, it's weird when you're younger, right O_o, but when you're older- 30-34, it doesn't really matter... Just when you're young is when it gets weird O_o... like 13 and a 9 year old O_e

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          12 years ago | pl

          actually he's 15 and im 17...

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          • [Old Memory]
            12 years ago | pl

            Doesn't make it any more legal to do anything with him...

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          • KokoroComplex
            12 years ago | pl

            DO IT!! Luckily you're still under 18. I was just talking to this guy yesterday who is a Freshman in college (18-19) and his fiance is a sophomore (19-20) I don't know the exact age, but 1 1/2 to 2 years is not big :P.

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  • LOUi_CUDi
    12 years ago | pl

    it wouldnt work. With 14 and 18 year old...

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    • MonchichiLuvsu
      12 years ago | pl

      i don't know, i know a couple who has been together for a few years now and they're at least 4 years apart.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago | pl

        well, an 18 year old and a 14 year old is actually illegal, so...

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      • LOUi_CUDi
        12 years ago | pl

        try it. ask him out.. i when i was senior i was with a freshman, secretly. didnt want no one to know kinda embrassing.. she messed up my last two months of high school. thanx a lot Stephany

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    • KokoroComplex
      12 years ago | pl

      That's only 4 years... my parents are five years apart and my mom's older

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