Don't make too big a deal out of it - you don't want to make her feel put on the spot. When you find the right time, you could say something like, "It'd be really great to spend some time with you, how do you feel about going to see a film/going for dinner/going for a walk?" Whichever one is realistic for you. Keep it simple but make it clear that you'd like to go on a date and get to know her better. If she says no, then at least you tried and the initial disappointment will go. And lastly, if she says yes - treat her like a lady and listen to what she has to say - be interested and responsive. That way, the second date might be in the bag too.
Should I go for it and ask her out?
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Don't make too big a deal out of it - you don't want to make her feel put on the spot. When you find the right time, you could say something like, "It'd be really great to spend some time with you, how do you feel about going to see a film/going for dinner/going for a walk?" Whichever one is realistic for you. Keep it simple but make it clear that you'd like to go on a date and get to know her better. If she says no, then at least you tried and the initial disappointment will go. And lastly, if she says yes - treat her like a lady and listen to what she has to say - be interested and responsive. That way, the second date might be in the bag too.