But if they weren't together, how is it cheating? The kiss, if that's all it was, is certainly no big thing, but it does seem that the OP's obsession w/ it all will kill the relationship, anyway.
I wish I could edit the post and change kiss to making out because I feel like people are envisioning it as something like a little peck on the cheek lol. The actual thing that worries me is that we've been together for 3 years without having sex yet when we went on that break within months she loses her virginity to someone who she only recently met. Btw, she told me she saw the guy making out with other girls so she pretty much just lost it to an asshole who didn't care about her.
What a shame all the way around.
It's up to you now where it goes. You were separated when she did whatever, so you really can't say she cheated, but if you can't get over it, the relationship is doomed.
But remember one thing; she did not lie to you or break your trust. Your heart, perhaps, but you have no reason to believe she won't be faithful in the future.
Should I forgive her for cheating?
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But if they weren't together, how is it cheating? The kiss, if that's all it was, is certainly no big thing, but it does seem that the OP's obsession w/ it all will kill the relationship, anyway.
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I wish I could edit the post and change kiss to making out because I feel like people are envisioning it as something like a little peck on the cheek lol. The actual thing that worries me is that we've been together for 3 years without having sex yet when we went on that break within months she loses her virginity to someone who she only recently met. Btw, she told me she saw the guy making out with other girls so she pretty much just lost it to an asshole who didn't care about her.
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If she really cared about you and getting you back she wouldn't sleep with someone else. Even if it was on a break.
What a shame all the way around.
It's up to you now where it goes. You were separated when she did whatever, so you really can't say she cheated, but if you can't get over it, the relationship is doomed.
But remember one thing; she did not lie to you or break your trust. Your heart, perhaps, but you have no reason to believe she won't be faithful in the future.