I don't think you are abnormal. You sound kind of like my hubby and I. We are not social. He has his online gaming community and I'm just exhausted all the time and my children consume my entire life. The only difference between us and you is that we are in our 30s and you're 20.
It sounds like you think you SHOULD be more social, but you don't know how. It seems forced. If it is that way, why push it? That's what I think anyway. Let stuff happen naturally. Don't force yourself to go out and form and maintain tons of friendships that you really don't want to. But in my opinion don't be a recluse, either. Hope that helps.
Should I force myself to be outgoing or accept being an introvert
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I don't think you are abnormal. You sound kind of like my hubby and I. We are not social. He has his online gaming community and I'm just exhausted all the time and my children consume my entire life. The only difference between us and you is that we are in our 30s and you're 20.
It sounds like you think you SHOULD be more social, but you don't know how. It seems forced. If it is that way, why push it? That's what I think anyway. Let stuff happen naturally. Don't force yourself to go out and form and maintain tons of friendships that you really don't want to. But in my opinion don't be a recluse, either. Hope that helps.