Being "social" is a muscle that has to be trained like any other. Sure there are some more naturally gifted than you are, but that is no excuse to stay weak.
"I’m described as the jock type, I really enjoy my sport and focus a lot on it and see my team as coworkers more than a social group."
Unless you're headed to Tokyo in 2020 for the olympics, you're doing sports wrong. It is 100x more rewarding to win with a group of friends vs a group of associates. If you want to start building friendships, focus on your teammates and put forth some real effort.
Go out, especially during those times you don't want to. You'll start to realize that you'll rarely regret it.
Should I force myself to be outgoing or accept being an introvert
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Being "social" is a muscle that has to be trained like any other. Sure there are some more naturally gifted than you are, but that is no excuse to stay weak.
"I’m described as the jock type, I really enjoy my sport and focus a lot on it and see my team as coworkers more than a social group."
Unless you're headed to Tokyo in 2020 for the olympics, you're doing sports wrong. It is 100x more rewarding to win with a group of friends vs a group of associates. If you want to start building friendships, focus on your teammates and put forth some real effort.
Go out, especially during those times you don't want to. You'll start to realize that you'll rarely regret it.