Should i continue to bang my ex?

We broke up like a week ago, but she hasn't moved out yet, I've had sex with her three times since. I know women can become reattached. We sleep in different rooms every night. But after the last time she wanted to cuddle after but I said no. Plus I had a date with a new girl, neither one of them know about the other.

No more sex 274
Keep going until things get ugly 265
Tell both about each other 79
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  • supaflyafro

    just put yourself in the date's shoes. what if you found out the one you're dating is still banging their ex?

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    • joben112

      o please its a "date" she has no reason to know

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      • supaflyafro

        what the date doesnt know wont hurt her. got it lol

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  • PuppetMan

    Try to get a Threesome going.. Giggity...

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    • amy_567

      I agree x

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  • taciturn

    It'd be an awful idea even if there wasn't a second girl in the picture, and I think you know it's a pretty unstable situation. Don't be inconsiderate. Don't be a dick. Tell them both about the situation and make a clean cut with your ex.

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  • sprite

    If you want to screw around then don't have a 'relationship', you can't have both and survive intact! Its either a relationship with one person at a time or screw around with other women who know there is no more to it.

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  • pandabear1209

    Only a douche dates a girl while having a ex (of one week) still living there....do you like being a douche? Whatever floats your boat I guess -.-

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    • ToddStellar

      He ended his relationship with the girl he is living with, so she is now just a roommate. She is just as free as he is for doing whatever it is she likes.
      Now, having that said, I agree, it is not what I would do, but that's because of my own moral obligation, not his.
      What he is doing is okay with him, and who is to say he is wrong?

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  • MsHummeri

    Well. In Love & War, anything is allowed until the other side finds out. I would recommend you to stop, but thats only my personal opinion.

    My opinion comes from the facts that take place when you actually get busted, if you get busted.

    If you decide to continue yourself - Be extremely careful, things might get nasty.

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  • Jweezee

    You're setting yourself up for a disaster. But one of the options is "keep going until things get ugly", so i guess you already know that. So, either keep fuckin till the shit hits the fan or man up and truly split with the girlfriend. ( i'd choose option 2)

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

      that's assuming either woman will have him after they find out.

      and if she's on the lease she has a lot of leverage against him. and if she's not on the lease and he kicks her out she... well he's still putting his DNA between her legs so she could use that against him too

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      • chewy

        I suppose you mean by saying putting his DNA between her legs you mean him ejaculating in her vagina correct me if i am wrong.

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        • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

          yep. although even if he uses a condom there could be enough left behind.

          seriously he's just digging himself a hole in this one

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          • chewy

            Yeah and don't forget if the condom breaks it can cause an unplanned pregnancy.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    I'm thinking the OP has no idea just how ugly this could turn...

    if you're still having sex with your ex, she can use it to blackmail you if she finds out about the new woman

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  • laxman209

    how about you just have a threesome.

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    • lexi6

      Yah (even though i am a girl) ask your ex if she would want to have a threesome. then ask your gf and if one says no kick out your ex. i agree with you laxman208

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  • They should both be concentrating on getting the laundry done, along with the ironing and other house cleaning duties that woman do once everything in the kitchen has been taken care of.

    I say continue doing it, woman need to be reminded of their submission to men as much as possible.

    Plus with 2 women you will get twice as many sandwiches.

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    • Energy

      What a fag. Go suck a dick since you worship them so much. Oh and since you want to get sexist, go work hard and make lots of money for the girls to spend. Isn't that what we men are for?!

      Yea fuck you buddy. Fag. You make us look bad.

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      • You are the one that makes men look bad. You are probably one of those bitch guys who get dragged around by their wife or significant other who then does exactly what he is told, when he is told to do it since he is afraid of standing up to his wife.

        Most of these posts are meant just as a joke, but you sound like a gigantic pussy Energy, who would never stand up for himself, all the while doing exactly what his wife tells him to do and all the while justifying it is in his head that he is "happily" married.

        Men like you are the reason woman act they way they do. Because they know eventually a PUSSY like you will come along and give them whatever they want.

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        • Energy

          Don't get kinky on me buddy. I may be a pussy :P
          But you love pussies, unless your Gay so what's the problem then?

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          • I dont have a problem with it, but wouldnt you rather not be married, then be married (or in a relationship that is the equivalent of being married) where all you do is get told what to do and when to do it?

            That in your mind is worth getting to bang some pussy that just gets older every year that goes by and is the same piece of ass it always was?

            I cant stand guys that dont stand up to their wives at all. Its pathetic.

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            • rin

              Couples should have respect for one another. It does exist.

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            • Energy

              Who said I dont stand up? Besides its really hard to piss me off :( its weird

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    • dan90655

      i want a sandwich lol

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    • ArmyMan

      Is that a joke?! If you want submission look at the way women run the world. While we're out there busting our asses for them, they just sit at home and cook?!?!?!? It's because of assholes like you they are superior!!!! I would do anything to just sit around at home and cook and clean thats like a vacation everyday!!! While we're like slaves to them! Making money for the family!
      FUCK THAT, AND FUCK YOU.

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      • Wow, you sound really pissed off, what happened did the wifey play a little hide the salami with the neighbor while you were off fighting the towel heads for oil ??

        I wasnt really being totally serious in my posts, but I do find men who do exactly what their wives/girlfriends want all the time to be gigantic PUSSY'S, like Energy.

        Energy you belong in the kitchen cooking and doing laundry all day. The world is a big scary place, let the big boys take care of it.

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        • Energy

          Sorry, nope. I rather do whatever I want. And sure what's wrong with being in the kitchen when you're making yourself something? I dont have a problem with you telling me that because hey, I get hungry! :P
          So if im a pussy then i dont like you then you get none. :)

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          • Hey I like cooking as well, nothing wrong with it.

            I get NO pussy by the way either. NONE.

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            • Energy

              Why's that? Men have needs women do too. I'd think sex is good for both.

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        • rin

          You weren't being totally serious in your posts? There's a difference between being sarcastic and just plain offending people.

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          • Well I'll tell you what, you tell me what you think I was being serious about and I will tell you if you are right or not, hows that?

            We got an accord partner?

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    • drtywiteboy

      i only voted this up because it was clearly a joke. (did laugh like a bad kid, it was really sexist, but still funny damnit! and the rule with me is, it don't matter if it was mean, so long as it was ment to be funny (less its not funny, then your jus bein fucked up)!!!)

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    • Saycheese

      Ha. Nice joke. At least I know you are joking.

      But I personally would stop what you are doing. Its just wrong to be seeing another woman but yet having sex with your ex. I don't see anything good happening out of that.

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  • spidercrowblaze18762

    Yeah, and if she has hot boobs and a hot ass, then call me too! I will fill her face with my full fucking cum load!

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  • BigRedOne

    Keep porking her dude, never turn down the pussy.

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  • Bernardsbook

    Women don't have feelings, not important ones anyway.
    This is one of those situations where being selfish pays dividends, after all, love, marriage and relationships are a pointless waste of time and money, if you're getting no strings attached sex just run with it.
    Just keep in mind 'I am number one, my personal gratification is the most important'

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  • milkymum

    when i have broken up with ym ex's i have laid on ym back many a time for them so they can get what they need, i still lay on my back for all my kids dads as men need to be looked after

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  • rock-chick

    no its not dude cum on???

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  • drtywiteboy

    dude dude DUDDDDEEEEE!!!! don't look down the ledge! its a loooooooonnnnnnngggggg way down bro!!!! leading on your ex when your into some new chick is bad BAD juju man! your ex needs to get the hell out while your at it!

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    • drtywiteboy

      (been in this situation, it will slap you in the dick if you take a wrong step! trust in the advice!)

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  • randypete

    have a threesome.

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  • Skyrimfan9/11

    Tell them about each other, try for a threesome. Good luck

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  • helluvabunny

    I don't know you as a person, but you are being selfish. Having a dating life while enjoying the physical pleasurea of non relationship sex is kind of mean to both girls involved. have some feelings and end it before either of them gets really hurt.

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  • tootit

    i honestly dont feel it fully over between you to if it was so easy to have sex not only is she emotionally attached to you but you are as well now your trying to move on but its hard..i guess that sex between you two were good and really one week dude that not even an official brake up

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  • joybird

    djpatties is joking :o)

    Anyhow to the OP - how can she be an ex if you are still having sex? Mixed messages my friend! Stop!

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  • Ramit10

    Get your new girl to join in with your ex haha

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  • 10inch

    Well I am a Guy and I am married but we still live togeather happy but we no longer have sex and I think its OK to cheat material I kinda get turned on by it so yes its ok

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