Should i breakup with a girl who throws toilet paper in the trash can?

My girlfriend, of one week, is leaving toilet paper (with sh** on it) in the trash can when she visits me! I had no idea until now simply because I saw something brownish in the bathroom trash can out of the corner of my eye this morning...
It's so nasty, I don't know if I can ever look at her the same way again. Am I over- reacting? Should I confront her about it?

Is it like a girl thing where they are afraid to clog the toilet (it's been suggested to me that girls use a lot more toilet paper than men and this sh** covered toilet paper was in large clumps)?

I am so disgusted right now, I can't think about anything else. I am in desperate need of anonymous assistance...

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  • I don't know how this comment will be headed, but I am the story author:

    I'm sorry, I found out today that my father came over to my apartment and let some Honduran dude use my bathroom (when I wasn't here) and this guy thought he was doing the right thing by putting the paper in the trash because where he comes from the toilets can't handle the paper. That's so gross, but at least I found it's not my girlfriend. But for all those people who actually have girlfriends that do that maybe you all should ignore this post and pretend that it really happened so that others can learn from this.
    I know that I would have to break up with her if I found that she was doing that...that's just wrong and nasty and invasive and dirty.

    Needless to say, I am furious with my father.

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  • Thetruthtella

    To tell you the truth, THIS IS HUGE. how y'all gonna get married and have a family together!? she gonna teach yo babies to trash poopoo paper instead of flushing that shit. you dont want yo babies learning that kind of inappropriate behavior. what if your daughter goes to a sleepover and decides to throw away her poo paper and all her friends find out this disturbing secret and start hating on her for it! you dont want your wife teaching yo babies shit like this. if not for the nasty smell generated from trashing poo paper, break up with her for the future of your kids!

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  • deviant

    When I went to Cuba for vacation they did this there too, in all of the washrooms I went to. Maybe its just something she learned from her family?

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  • blahuhblah

    Lmao, I'm a girl and I'd be grossed/freaked out too. I dont think that you are overreacting, but if you truly like her, confront her about it.

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  • CoonCat15

    You need to get over it. It's really not a big deal. Your girlfriend poops and farts and has boogers in her nose like anyone else. There is no reason you should be fixating on it. In a truly intimate and true relationship you would just be able to tell her it grosses you our. However, for your sake maybe you can just focus on the things you like about her/ attract her to you and not worry about something so trivial. Or try to hang out at her house?

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  • iGornet

    What kind of DICKHEAD would even think of breaking up with his girlfriend over such a trivial matter? Yeah, it's gross, but why would you break up with her because of it?

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  • AlesanaSTARRx

    Tbh, You cant really like her that much if you're willing to break up with her over something so trivial. If you really like her, sort it out. If you don't, stop finding reasons to break up with her, and do it honestly.

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    • Tangerinewar

      wow you were freaking for the main fact that you thought your girlfriend was doing a normal culture thing? Wow I would hate for you to be in someone else country and they say something bad about you and your habits. Funny though you think that could have been bad. It could be worse. Do her a favor and step away from the relationship so she can get a REAL man not a boy scared that the poop monster going to get him.

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  • blahuhblah

    Whoops, just read your comment.

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  • (s)aint

    Everyone poops! I can't stand men who cannot deal with me as a girl pooping, pissing, belching and farting everywhere that i go.

    Stop being so sensitive :L

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  • Muffkateer1

    Oh my god that's so funny that you found out it wasn't her

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  • robbieforgotpw

    Speaking as someone who can only use a commercial strength toilet, even in my own home, I feel it would be unnecessary to leave dump paper in the can.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Tell how to use the loo. If that was me, I'd be disgusted. She needs to clean her "shit trash" and learn how to properly use a toilet.

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  • misscrusher

    The rednecks out by me do this they say it keeps from filling up the septic tank to fast. Me no way just pay the 150 bucks a year and have it pumped out nasty nasty nasty. My friend picks up trash and always complains about this says it is wrong and stinks to high heaven he just dont understand it.Flush that crap toilet paper breaks down faster than the poop duh.

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  • It's odd, just ask her why she does it

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  • Sweetz

    That is discusting tell her to flush it next time >_<

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx

    It was probably cause she was afraid it would clog the toilet duh or maybe it wasn't crap other stuff is brown too. Makeup like eyeshadow could have opened in her bag or something. -alesana is awesome!!!!-

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  • inlove89

    Wow not a big deal get over it

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  • ruralfrights

    Glad it worked out for you. Maybe this was a text. I would discuss these irritants with her should she do something silat in the future. Just remember, even her majesty of England shits and wipes and scratches where it itches.

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  • thats groossssssssssssss/

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  • DINLA100

    This is NASTY no matter what the culture. I once worked with some SOUTH-OF-THE-BORDER guys and they had the same filthy habit. The bad part is even after management confronted them about it, they did not stop....Dump this chick ASAP..

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  • emopoops

    NO NO NO u damn well need to cinfront this girl and u make sure to ask her why she did it. u know that stuff be stinky. if u was sure its a poop piece and not some brown other stuff then u need to ask her whats up? toilet paper that u wipe is for the stinking toilet not the trash. now u need to go upfront with her about it and let a girlfriend know she be freakin making u made. let a gf know u dont like it! thatll teach er. unlss she got something like "oh i was tryin to make u like me more" then u give it to ehr in the bed boy!

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  • cgirl123456

    maybe you should buy a trash can with a lid. Haha!
    In Uruguay, they throw TP into the trash cans.

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  • emmyems

    My friend grew up without great plumbing at their house - t.p would clog the toilet, so her family tossed it in the garbage. She doesn't live there anymore but she still puts her t.p in the garbage. It's just the way she's always done it and she doesn't think twice about it. Maybe your gf was in that situation at one point?

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    • emmyems

      just read your comment up there, do disregard mine..but it appears i was right about it being a plumbing issue, whoever the t.p belonged to...

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  • bell017

    In many other countries, this is the way things are done. If you do run into somebody that does this, and it aggravates you, I would suggest bringing it up to them and letting them know that this practice typically is not acceptable in your culture.

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