Should i break up with him?

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The title is misleading but somewhat true, I just really need honest advice. Please dont call me crazy or weird.. im writing this on an anonymous website for a reason. Not a troll post I really dont know what to do.
I met this guy in college & weve been dating for awhile. Ive never met his family, but i put it upon myself to find out everything about them, including their social media profiles. Especially his sister’s twitter and instagram account. They’re private, so I made a fake account and gained random followers to make it look believeable in order to follow them. I literally LOVE her. Ive become so obsessed with her to the point where i stalked her tweets all the way back to highschool, I have her post notifications on for twitter and instagram, and I forced myself to listen to every song on every album of the bands she likes, and become obsessed with them too. It’s like FRIENDlust, i dont have a lesbian crush on his sister, but I want to be able to be friends with her SO bad. His parents are superrrr cool too, like It’s my dream to be related to them. But the thing is, I dont even like this guy anymore, and I’m obsessed with his family. Sometimes i consider breaking up with him but then I remember the amazing in-laws ill have when we graduate, and I cant live without them. It’s the only thing keeping me staying w/ him. Please help me, should I stay with him, or break up with him/ his family too :(

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    Why so some people still insist on believing that what they see on social media has some relation to reality?

    You've never even met his family, so you don't know them, and you can't really be in love with them. In reality, you're in love with the curated images that his family members choose to project. What you've seen may be close to who they really are, but it's also possible they're a family of psychopaths who belong to some weird religious cult and they put a lot of effort into creating a fluffy smokescreen to deflect suspicion. Even if they're not that bad, it's likely there's a lot of shit going on in the family that they'll never advertise to the world.

    Frankly, you sound like a twelve year-old who's obsessed with the current pop star and proclaims herself to be in love with him, even though she has no true understanding who he really is and she's actually in love with his PR image.

    Bottom line is that you don't love the guy, and you only love an idealised image of his family that you've manufactured in your own head. What you should do is pretty damn obvious.

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  • FloppyPottee661
    5 years ago

    Um. Gurl you're a whole new breed of crazy. But just saying, break-in up with someone doesn't mean cutting them out of your life, you can still be friends

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    Break up and just befriend his family.

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  • kelili
    5 years ago

    This is scary. I'm married and I can tell you something: you hardly meet your in-laws when you're married. You meet them occasionally but not 7/7 except in you live in the same house. If you don't like the guy you won't be happy living with him even if the family is great. And beside you don't really know them in real. You like the idea of them, not them.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      thank you sm.

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  • charli.m
    5 years ago

    Well that's fuckin creepy.

    You should seek counselling before this gets more out of hand.

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  • Tato
    5 years ago

    This seems wrong. You should break up.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Eww.

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