If they had a child together than I understand her calling him every now and than to talk and I guess cry to, but they split up 2 YEARS ago! They HAD a relationship and it OBVIOUSLY didn't work out and so they go their SEPERATE WAYS. There is no reason to keep in touch with each other, ESPECIALLY if he has started a new relationship in which he tells you he LOVES YOU. If he wants to stay in this relationship with you, than he needs to listen to the things that upset you, just the way you should listen to him when he has a problem in the relationship. And your problem is not a stupid one either. It is SOO COMMON for like ALL girls to feel the way you do.. Come on, how fine and dandy can someone feel if they know that the guy/girl they are with and LOVE(vice-versa)is talking and chilling with their EXX?? There will probably be a hard time with trusting your gf/bf around their ex that they had a big history with(5years!!) thats a long time. If he really loves you than he will not need to talk to her all the time or even see her, or feel sorry for her, she had a chance with him, not once but twice-like you said she cheated twice- and she blew it. Now he moved on to another girl, and she doesn't feel comfortable with him talking to his ex, so if he wants to make a nice life with you in the mean time, i think there are some adjustments he needs to make..Like cut off there connection?? No more talking and chilling, it's time to REALLY MOVE ON!!!
Should he still be in touch with his ex?
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If they had a child together than I understand her calling him every now and than to talk and I guess cry to, but they split up 2 YEARS ago! They HAD a relationship and it OBVIOUSLY didn't work out and so they go their SEPERATE WAYS. There is no reason to keep in touch with each other, ESPECIALLY if he has started a new relationship in which he tells you he LOVES YOU. If he wants to stay in this relationship with you, than he needs to listen to the things that upset you, just the way you should listen to him when he has a problem in the relationship. And your problem is not a stupid one either. It is SOO COMMON for like ALL girls to feel the way you do.. Come on, how fine and dandy can someone feel if they know that the guy/girl they are with and LOVE(vice-versa)is talking and chilling with their EXX?? There will probably be a hard time with trusting your gf/bf around their ex that they had a big history with(5years!!) thats a long time. If he really loves you than he will not need to talk to her all the time or even see her, or feel sorry for her, she had a chance with him, not once but twice-like you said she cheated twice- and she blew it. Now he moved on to another girl, and she doesn't feel comfortable with him talking to his ex, so if he wants to make a nice life with you in the mean time, i think there are some adjustments he needs to make..Like cut off there connection?? No more talking and chilling, it's time to REALLY MOVE ON!!!