If you don't have trust, you don't have a relationship.
It is totally normal for someone to have a close friendship with an ex -- especially one they spent five years with! It is probably an important friendship for him, and it seems natural for him to be her "shoulder to cry on."
If she is actually flirting with him, acting shady, or badmouthing you, then that's something else entirely. But if she's just spending time with your boyfriend as a friend, who cares?
Should he still be in touch with his ex?
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If you don't have trust, you don't have a relationship.
It is totally normal for someone to have a close friendship with an ex -- especially one they spent five years with! It is probably an important friendship for him, and it seems natural for him to be her "shoulder to cry on."
If she is actually flirting with him, acting shady, or badmouthing you, then that's something else entirely. But if she's just spending time with your boyfriend as a friend, who cares?