You're not being selfish for not wanting to spend $500 every 3 months on furniture or home decor because your lady likes to change colors. And for her to justify it by saying it's for "US", when in reality she's using that as an excuse for you to contribute to her selfish habit of wanting to change up the house every other week. There is no reason to spend that much money on something when there is no defect or fault. You have every right to want to keep your money and not spend it on dumb shit, and it seems that she's just being self centered and greedy. Don't fall for her guilt trips, its just her way of conning you into throwing money away for something SHE wants, but says you both need. You don't NEED to buy new curtains, or sofa's because one or the other doesn't match the carpet. That's stupid. It's fine to spoil yourself every now and then, but then to expect your partner to give up everything is a bit much.
Should a husband want to buy stuff for himself?
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You're not being selfish for not wanting to spend $500 every 3 months on furniture or home decor because your lady likes to change colors. And for her to justify it by saying it's for "US", when in reality she's using that as an excuse for you to contribute to her selfish habit of wanting to change up the house every other week. There is no reason to spend that much money on something when there is no defect or fault. You have every right to want to keep your money and not spend it on dumb shit, and it seems that she's just being self centered and greedy. Don't fall for her guilt trips, its just her way of conning you into throwing money away for something SHE wants, but says you both need. You don't NEED to buy new curtains, or sofa's because one or the other doesn't match the carpet. That's stupid. It's fine to spoil yourself every now and then, but then to expect your partner to give up everything is a bit much.