By your story I think it's fine for u to buy yourself those things u enjoy.u say she buy shoes and clothes and things she likes so it's double standard for her to not want u to buy things u like such as games/ speakers etc.
Buying 5 comforters in a year is extreme and I hope u give the old ones to people in need instead of just throwing them away because I'm sure that by the amount u replace them there would be nothing wrong with them.
I agree about if it works leave it be unless it's ugly. Sounds like a waste if money to me.
Your normal in my view and if it's ok for her to buy things for herself like clothes and what not then it should be ok for u to spend your money on something u like.
As for the money she spends on home improvements, then I think u should both contribute unless what she wants is ridiculous like new curtains or bedding when there is nothing wrong with what's already there.
I'm a girl by the way
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By your story I think it's fine for u to buy yourself those things u enjoy.u say she buy shoes and clothes and things she likes so it's double standard for her to not want u to buy things u like such as games/ speakers etc.
Buying 5 comforters in a year is extreme and I hope u give the old ones to people in need instead of just throwing them away because I'm sure that by the amount u replace them there would be nothing wrong with them.
I agree about if it works leave it be unless it's ugly. Sounds like a waste if money to me.
Your normal in my view and if it's ok for her to buy things for herself like clothes and what not then it should be ok for u to spend your money on something u like.
As for the money she spends on home improvements, then I think u should both contribute unless what she wants is ridiculous like new curtains or bedding when there is nothing wrong with what's already there.
I'm a girl by the way