Have you talked to her about it? Ask her to go down on you, and if she says no, then there's nothing you should do. Your choices are to keep things the way they are, stop going down on her, or break up with her.
First, though, you need to remind yourself that you're not entitled to a blowjob. Taking a shower doesn't mean she has to give you a blowjob. Going down on her doesn't mean she has to give you a blowjob. If your expectation is that she'll give you a blowjob if you go down on her, you need to tell her that beforehand, so she can decide if she wants to agree to that deal or not. You can't just expect it.
She never blows me.
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Have you talked to her about it? Ask her to go down on you, and if she says no, then there's nothing you should do. Your choices are to keep things the way they are, stop going down on her, or break up with her.
First, though, you need to remind yourself that you're not entitled to a blowjob. Taking a shower doesn't mean she has to give you a blowjob. Going down on her doesn't mean she has to give you a blowjob. If your expectation is that she'll give you a blowjob if you go down on her, you need to tell her that beforehand, so she can decide if she wants to agree to that deal or not. You can't just expect it.
So, what you should do is talk to her.