She loves to be tied up and fucked.

I thought she was just a typical bar fly when I picked her up last night. Just a lonely drunk soul like me. But on the ride to my place from the bar she tells me about how she wants me to tie her up when I fuck her. Which I did as soon as I got her into my bedroom. Used neck ties. I always thought this was something you'd only see in a porno video. Is it normal for a woman to get turned on by this? What a freak. What a wild fuck. She's got my cell number, and I have hers. But now that it's a day later I realize that this shit is just too freaky for me. She could even call the cops after I drop her off and have me arrested. I don't trust freaks. They can turn on a guy at any moment. But I did like it. Think I should see her again?

Is It Normal?
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  • Is she still tied up?

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  • You are SERIOUSLY unadventurous AND paranoid.

    Light bondage is NORMAL. Almost everyone tries it at some point.
    If you don't trust someone; there's more danger of THEM leaving YOU tied up - so make sure they don't tie you too securely.

    Time to widen your horizons & enjoy better sex!

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  • YES... NORMAL. I love bondage too. Consider yourself lucky to have found someone who shares it with you, because I still am looking for my BDSM soulmate. Talk to her about her boundaries - agree on a safe words for "easier", "harder", and "stop" commands. Get to know her likes/dislikes, and how far she'll go.

    For me, I draw the line at punches, kicks, and out-right beatings (an occasional face slap, hard bite, or deep scratch is OK)... things that bruise and bring blood may be stimulating, but nothing that will hurt so badly that it spoils the moment.

    OH, and you might want to get the conversation (and even the sex) audio or video recorded, for your "insurance" and peace of mind. Who knows, she might be into sex vids too... Of course, that's all between you and her.

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  • my wife often ties me up for sex and its great we both love it

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  • I've had a couple girlfriends in my life who sometimes tied me up for sex and it was fun. But I think it is odd that a woman whom you just met met want you to tie her up - that is not normal

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  • She probably had issues.

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