She didn't congratulate me?

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Is she ignoring me?

My fiance and I are engaged and I posted a photo of the ring online but she never told me congrats or anything. I even posted replying to her blogs she made, commented a lot, etc but she never said congrats, why is this? She even messaged me on messenger says Hey whats up? But when I said not much, getting ready for the wedding in a few days, she still didn't say a thing! She is my brother's long-term girlfriend (hes been dating her before I was dating the guy I'm with now).

Why is this? She's 23, I'm 19.

Let me know, thanks.

Do you think its because I've only been with the guy for 8 months and shes been with my brother for 7 years?

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Based on 37 votes (21 yes)
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Comments ( 15 )
  • kittkatt
    13 years ago

    If she's a fellow hillbilly she's jealous, if she's not, she's horrified and is following the adage "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all"!

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  • Mel
    13 years ago

    Could be jealousy, or could also be that she doesnt support it. I personally think 19 is too young, combined with only 8 months of knowing someone is a disaster waiting to happen. Hopefully youre the very few that last, but the odds are sadly you wont. Good luck.

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  • deepthought33
    13 years ago

    Yea I agree with redspark. I can totally see it not occuring to me, and if I didn't say it right when it happened then I'm probably going to feel awkward bringing it up later.
    And to all the other newlyweds saying their marriage is still great? That is awesome and I'm happy for you, but one to five years is nowhere near a long enough time to REALLY know.

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  • redspark
    13 years ago

    Mayb it didn't occur to her to say congrats

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  • sherry
    13 years ago

    You are waaaaaaay to young to get married. Success happens occasionally but not often.
    Why the rush?

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  • inlove89
    13 years ago

    Agree with Mel on this one.

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce
    13 years ago

    Because why tell someone to drive safe when they're wasted out of their mind? Marriage is one of the worst decisions to make next to jumping down a mine shaft. Your relationship will fail and it especially has to do with your age.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      Well I did hear the percentage of people my age who divorce is very high, but I don't believe any of it that crap.

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  • Mel
    13 years ago

    I didnt say EVERY marriage fails, I SAID that most of them do. I still believe it is incredibly stupid, everyones entitled to their own opinion. Either way she will do what feels right to her. Im sorry to hear about your husband.

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  • Fistelle
    13 years ago

    MEL, My husband and I married after only knowing each other 3 months. We were very happy for 11 years when my husband died. Not every such marriage fails.

    Friend, get your happiness where you can; there is not always a lot to be had. If it feels right, do it. I wish you every happiness.

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  • gowila
    13 years ago

    I got married young and after one year. We are still happy. Don't listen to people it's up to you and your partner.

    I love my wife more than anything. It's kids that take the freedom

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Maybe she is jealous that ur so young and gettjn married after a short time unlike her

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  • inlove89
    13 years ago

    I don't understand why people rush to get married!!!! Drives me crazy lol. Oh well your choice I guess.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    who is "she"? that confused me. also, eight months?! really?! in my opinion, waaayy too soon!

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  • 0311wife06
    13 years ago

    She's probably jealous.

    And Screw all of you who think she's rushing into marraige!! I was married at 19 and I had only been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We're coming up on our 4th anniversary. We have a wonderful son together that's about to turn one (and yes he was planned) and we couldn't be happier.

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