Idk dude maybe I’m also fake. But even with work when I need to make better impressions and be this nicer more social person I have to but it’s exhausting. When I’m working I’m focused on customer service shit because impressions are important. How I am regularly isn’t changed for peoples perspectives. I don’t try and be something I’m not for others to like me. Personality wise people change we get older but I don’t fake things I try and live in reality here. I’m going with the flow being myself maybe theirs times I can seem fake too idk but my point is I don’t purposely change myself for people. Do you see what I’m saying now? Cause I don’t particularly wanna type anymore books.
Then what do you call someone who changed who they are just to make people like them. Constantly needs to be different and feel the need to adjust themself for others? It’s not the true them. Fake mask except in this case she’s going alll out.
It’s attention seeking. Maybe It’s cause I don’t like the attention of others and being center of anything but when I see people acting not themselves for others it drives me crazy. Isn’t it better to want people to like you for you?
But what is the "true them"? Why is that something for you to decide?
Everyone behaves differently among different people. Even if you don't realize it. Most of it isn't even a conscious choice - they're not intentionally faking anything, that's just how behavior works.
She constantly changes the way she looks and acts
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Who are you to determine what is "fake" or not?
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Idk dude maybe I’m also fake. But even with work when I need to make better impressions and be this nicer more social person I have to but it’s exhausting. When I’m working I’m focused on customer service shit because impressions are important. How I am regularly isn’t changed for peoples perspectives. I don’t try and be something I’m not for others to like me. Personality wise people change we get older but I don’t fake things I try and live in reality here. I’m going with the flow being myself maybe theirs times I can seem fake too idk but my point is I don’t purposely change myself for people. Do you see what I’m saying now? Cause I don’t particularly wanna type anymore books.
Then what do you call someone who changed who they are just to make people like them. Constantly needs to be different and feel the need to adjust themself for others? It’s not the true them. Fake mask except in this case she’s going alll out.
It’s attention seeking. Maybe It’s cause I don’t like the attention of others and being center of anything but when I see people acting not themselves for others it drives me crazy. Isn’t it better to want people to like you for you?
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But what is the "true them"? Why is that something for you to decide?
Everyone behaves differently among different people. Even if you don't realize it. Most of it isn't even a conscious choice - they're not intentionally faking anything, that's just how behavior works.
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Did I say I decide it? Not so much how comfortable you are but how bad you change for someones interest.
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Idk I give up here Nikki.
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I'm not palehorse. I think you may have become confused about who you are responding too.
Who's Nikki?