Sexually frustrated! :(

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Well here's the deal. I'm a male almost 20 and bisexual.

I'm still a virgin and I have not even had my first kiss yet. It's not that I'm bad looking or anything, a lot of people told me I'm pretty good looking. I carry myself in a decent manner and have goals a an dreams and all of that crap.

For the past two months or so I've noticed I'm getting a little more sexually frustrated each day. Honestly sometimes I want to go out hook up and be done with it. I'm not going to do that because I already know the negative feelings that will come with it but sometimes I jut can't stand it. My friends have told me it's good that I'm waiting... But I'm almost 20! The fact that I hasn't even kissed anyone makes me feel sort of pathetic :(

What I'm trying to say is that I want to wait for the right guy or girl but at the same time I want to do it and get it over with. Sort of a struggle and it sucks.

I just need some support right now. Is it normal I feel like this?

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[Old Memory]

9 years ago

Virginity is overrated anyway. Just go out and experience it, I doubt it will have any negative effect on you in the long run...Depending on who you have sex with, if you use protection, and if they are carrying something...

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- me1993
  
  9 years ago
  
  being a virgin really is overrated, I hate it, im ashamed of it, im 21 and a red-blooded lad, who hasn't even kissed a girl! Got to the point where I wonder what the point of me is, cos I haven't contributed to the species, i haven't found me special lass, i haven't started satisfying me large heterosexual appetite!
  
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Gbm1

9 years ago

A lot of girls feel the same way. I'm 19, female and I still haven't had a first kiss. I'm not particularly bad looking, but not a stunner either. My 2 best friends are exactly the same.
There are a lot of people out there that are in the same situation as you, just not that many that confess to it. You're not pathetic, if anything I like that stuff about waiting for the right person to come along. I'm doing the exact same thing :)

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GreyWulfen

9 years ago

This is normal, yes. But if you are patient and keep your eyes open, you will eventually find the right guy or girl.

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Treehugger29

9 years ago

Perfectly normal, and also, you could be me. I feel exactly the same, I am also a 19yo male bi and I havent had a lasting relationship since ever. The feeling of being alone has had the upper hand, but not for long. I satisfy my mind with the knowledge that patient people receive the best love story. What has helped me from getting frustrated, is going to the weird side of porn. It keeps me busy.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Glad to know I'm not alone...
  
  The weird side of the porn site?
  
  I don't want to know...
  
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me1993

9 years ago

oh believe me that's perfectly normal, I'm a 21 year old red-blooded lad, meaning I have a healthy interest in the opposite sex shall we say, and I'm a virgin, never even kissed a girl, my god the deep shame I feel! no wife, no bairn, I'm lonely, and sexually frustrated! =(

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Avant-Garde

9 years ago

Masturbate.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  That doesn't really help me anymore
  
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- shuggy-chan
  
  9 years ago
  
  you first
  
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JaxX

9 years ago

20 years down,20 more till you lose the drive. Suggest you get out there and look. No need for sluttyness but if you die tomarrow you wouldnt have gotten to experience that intimacy.

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- me1993
  
  9 years ago
  
  it really is depressing isn't it
  
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humhainna

8 years ago

I lost my virginity at 28. You are only a young boy. I used to wear a 'Langot' to control my
Self and never felt frustrated. I am over 75 and still randy but no availability frm wife. I was a late starter to please my wife. Wear a 'langot' to kill your frustrations.

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thr

9 years ago

How about that, instead of waiting for the right one, you endeavour to find someone to be with? It doesn't have to be the one, it doesn't have to be a one-night stand.

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fr332B

9 years ago

For all the gay and bi desperate men out there let me give you one piece of advice. Grindr (there is no e in Grindr). It is the gods gift to gay and bi men. It makes straight guys jealous.

Getting laid?
Yup there's an app for that.

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green_boogers

9 years ago

Stroke your boner and think about whores. Be more sociable with all girls.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I'm not going to think about you while I masturbate.
  
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- [Old Memory]
  
  9 years ago
  
  What about stroking your boner while being sociable with girls?
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    9 years ago
    
    You try that
    
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    - [Old Memory]
      
      9 years ago
      
      I'm not sexually frustrated. So you try it.
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        9 years ago
        
        You sound like you are to me
        
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        [Old Memory]
        
        9 years ago
        
        Are you a certified sexual therapist?
        
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GustavoGutiérrez

9 years ago

Perhaps stop calling it "all of that crap" and maybe people will start believing you don't think sex with a person is "all of that crap".

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Johnnytherat

9 years ago

Lol virgin. Ima call you mary from now on k?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I'm going to call you Ass from now on K?
  
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  - Johnnytherat
    
    9 years ago
    
    Trollins my game ass is my name. sometimes its johnnytherat tho
    
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    - EccentricWeird
      
      9 years ago
      
      Stop being a sub par troll!
      
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