Sexually confused, can you help me?

The abnormal part is that your man doesn't want a 3 way with another chick!!!

You can control your own life. It sounds like you married a man who does not accept the real you. If you are attracted to women, then you should have sex with them. That is normal and morally correct. You can try to be what he wants you to be and what others have convinced you is "normal" but it will be unfair to you and equally unfair to your husband, and it won't work. Why condemn him to an unhappy life with a frustrated wife.

Why on earth did u get married at 21! :O

My wife loves girls like you and really likes to put arrogant ah like your hubby in his place.

I think you're bi. Just a guess. Take a test online or whatever.

I think your husban might be gay if my gf said she wanted a 3 some(2 girls and me) I would be estatic

If you love him then respect his wishes, you should of experimented before you got married, i feel it is to late to experiment with thinking about women.
Treasure what you have (husband)because if you do the wrong thing and he finds out, you will be left with nothing, then you feel that lost and he might be the one .

I think that you need to find a BI-sexual or Lesbian "Friend" to figure yourself out .. It sucks to hurt him but I bet if he was questioning himself he would be trying things with men as well ... I'm 22 and I'm pretty much in the same situation except I'm not married but we been together on and off for 6 years .. So I feel you ma ... Just do what makes you happy we are very young :)

Don't have children until you have sorted yourself and relationship out.

Just admit that you're bisexual, and when he's gone, you can look at naughty things on the Internet. That's what I do, anyhow. :D

you may only be strongly fantizing about it, i do it occasionally and i am very straight lol, but if you are bi then you should be honest and completey serious with him. you are still VERY young. use porn too. or become good friends with a lesbian or another bisexual and fool around with them.

That is normal. You married him so you should probably give him a chance. Wait a few years and see how you feel. If you're still crazy about girls then ask him again. He might change his mind. If he doesn't then divorce him. You're not being fair to yourself. In the mean time you should look at porn when you can't get them out of you're head.

Being 21, you have a LONG way to go in your relationship, if you really love him like you say you do. A man's "no" is almost always "probably not." As your relationship gets stronger, he may get more comfortable and secure and love the idea. At least for now, you belong to HIM and him only.

your husband is gay,and probably flameingy so.

No this is not normal this is not something you see in everyday society.You should respect your husband enough not to make feel uncomfortable about not having a threesome. Just keep your sexual urges to yourself.