This is definitely something you should bring up with him. Maybe not mention the fantasizing about other men part, but talk to him that you haven't been feeling the same way about sex as you used to. A lot of people can't do the same thing and still expect the same results years later, you have to change it up. Explore each others inner desires or fetishes and it could really add enjoyment. Obviously you have to compromise with what he wants as well. I guess what I'm saying is to just talk to him about it. Just don't make it sound like its his fault, he might not even be aware that you are unhappy.
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This is definitely something you should bring up with him. Maybe not mention the fantasizing about other men part, but talk to him that you haven't been feeling the same way about sex as you used to. A lot of people can't do the same thing and still expect the same results years later, you have to change it up. Explore each others inner desires or fetishes and it could really add enjoyment. Obviously you have to compromise with what he wants as well. I guess what I'm saying is to just talk to him about it. Just don't make it sound like its his fault, he might not even be aware that you are unhappy.