Sexual dreams of other men?
Is it normal? to have sexual dreams of other men, no clue who they are... but im in a very committed relationship with no desire to cheat at all. i love my man, but i have sexual dreams with other men?
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I've talked to him about he said "its normal" i just worry. thank you guys for not being rude like other people. im room mating with other family so we dont really have a sex life here, because it feels weird, im thinking maybe thats why? my relationship means the world to me, and i would never do anything to hurt him nor break our relationship up.
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Completely normal.
Variety is the spice of life. It's something we crave, as humans. It's human nature.Just like a person gets sick of their job, or the same routine, people can also get sick of sex, which is likely where your fantasies are coming from.
The real questions you need to ask yourself are:
1) How much do you care about the relationship you're currently in?
2) Is it worth it to cheat on him and possibly hurt his feelings?
3) Would he be interested in an open relationship, or becoming swingers? and, follow-up question: Would he get offended if you asked him about it?You can choose to either confront him about it that way, go behind his back and cheat, or keep those desires bundled up inside and stay committed to him.
I'd also be sure to think through all the possible consequences of each of those actions before making a choice.
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