Sexual arousal from jealousy

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I have a girlfriend, she's 19 and I'm 20, and we're both in love. I am a little bit jealous and insecure, as she is my first girlfriend. However, when I masturbate I fantasize about her having sex with a stranger (sometimes more than one) while I secretely watch, enraged. In my fantasies, the other male is usually somewhat dominant, and he does the same kinds of things I like to do to her sexually, but she seems to enjoy it more than when I do them. After the climax I feel kind of unhealthy.

I haven't told her, she's very sweet and innocent and with little sexual experience, so I don't want to weird her out.

Is this normal at all? Does anyone have any
insight or advice you could give me? Please

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  • Masterfreak3
    5 years ago | pl

    I too get off on the jealousy aspect of what you described. It is the number one thing that gets me off and I use it often. I just brought the fantasy up to my girlfriend and we have both been playing lightly with it. It is normal but don't dwell on it or prioritize it. You want your relationship to be special with a twist of sick on the side.

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago | pl

    It is perfectly normal to have sexual fantasies just be carefull when acting upon them. Sometimes to fantasize about something is one thing, but actually doing it can ruin it all.

    on the other hand some fantasies are just fucking lovely and need to be fulfilled, you decide.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Uhm hmm. Lol. I dunno that's a little weird.

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