Sex? i couldnt care less

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Let me just start this off by saying no I'm not homosexual, been there didn't like it! Basically for as long as I can remember I've disliked sexual intercourse, it just doesn't seem to appeal to me as being the single greatest thing in the universe like it does a lot of people (a lot of my friends included). I don't know what or why it is but I just couldn't care less about sex, it just doesn't interest me. I have had sex quite a few times before and sure it felt ok but I haven't done it in 3 years now and it doesn't even cross my mind. I wouldn't say I hate sex exactly, I can just happily live without it. A lot of my friends are typical blokes who are on about who they have and would like to 'bang' and I'm just like whatever and ofc I get called weird for this but id honestly rather jusy focus my attention on my music and producing than shagging some slag on a night out. Basicaly an I normal or am I this weirdo that everyone says I am? Thanks

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  • Bobblahblah
    9 years ago

    I guess you may have low testosterone, but I guess it doesn't really matter as long as you are healthy and happy.

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    • Tempa001
      9 years ago

      Yeah low testosterone would make sense but aren't there other contributing factors to that? I.e depression?

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      • Tommythecat.
        9 years ago

        You're doing it wrong.....

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        • Tempa001
          9 years ago

          I'm not doing it all, Tommy

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          • Tommythecat.
            9 years ago

            Exactly.

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            • MCEminem
              8 years ago

              you can't dislike without doing it friends

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      • Bobblahblah
        9 years ago

        I don't know mate. I haven't looked into it.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    I posted a similar article a while back. Im a woman and Ive had a lot of sex but it has little appeal for me. Ive never had an orgasm during sex (maybe its my anatomy) and Im not interested in trying to spend hours doing that with some poor partner. When I do get sexual feelings I just use a vibrator and I prefer to do it alone. I fake interest in sex because almost everyone else thinks its soooo important and Ive just come to accept it will always be that way--me faking interest and the guy thinking Im a horny little woman but really, I think sex is messy and overrated and I much prefer self-stimulation.
    Also when I do have sex I prefer it to last no more than 5 minutes I hate when a guy tries to draw it out. I had a boyfriend who was a "minuteman" and that was the best sex I ever had.

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    • Tempa001
      9 years ago

      Nice to see someone with the same mind set. I have very similar thoughts about the whole thing, people are just too wound up in it nowadays. I wanna make something of myself not be known for being one of those blokes that's stuck it up every slag in the area, does that really make me such a weirdo? Does it fuck.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    You could be asexual. Don't worry. It's perfectly normal, even though it may seem strange in such an sex obsessed society.

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    • MCEminem
      8 years ago

      even asexuals have sex in their lifetime mate

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    • Tempa001
      9 years ago

      Would make sense tbh. Or maybe i'm just in denial with the whole thing because of a bad experience i dunno....

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  • ArtemesiaNoam
    9 years ago

    You may be asexual.

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  • MCEminem
    8 years ago

    you are either in search for some good sex, or you are from an alien race

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  • Caryopteris
    9 years ago

    Don't feel bad about it and don't fake it just to please somebody else. The only reason to have sex for you would be to have a baby, so if you don't have an urge to start a family, then don't even worry about it. Think how much more you can get done without the distraction of sex. But do take time out for fun and relaxation and when you have a physical, do mention to your doctor your lack of sex drive in case there is some hormonal problem. It could be thyroid or pituitary in nature.

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    • Tempa001
      9 years ago

      Thankyou for your positive comment nice to see someone on my side :) I was pondering on whether to consult a doctor but kinda thought it wouldn't be worth the bother

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  • Holzman_67
    9 years ago

    you just have a low functioning libido.
    it's how stella felt until she got her groove back

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    Low sex drive, possibly asexuality?

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality

    Plenty of people feel the same way as you, although the majority do care about having sex, especially within a relationship.

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    • Tempa001
      9 years ago

      Hmm maybe I should have clarified that I would like nothing more than to satisfy my partner if I had one for her sake not mine. I dunno its just I'm so unphased by sex sometimes it makes me feel un human

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  • oldieolds
    9 years ago

    Maybe you just haven't found that person who can make it worth wild

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