Sex hurts every time

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I've had sex several times and it hurts every time. I want it to feel good and be fun but it doesn't and isn't. After doing it for like 7 minutes, my skin becomes raw from the friction. I try to make sure I'm plenty aroused and wet but the pain makes me less turned on so it just gets worse. How can I make sex fun? What am I doing wrong? By the way, I'm 17.

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  • shanghainights
    10 years ago | pl

    Several times and it's still causing some pain, That is somewhat unusual. Perhaps you could invest in lube, if there's too much friction going on, that my ease things a bit.

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  • Animosity
    12 years ago | pl

    Thanks guys. I'm a woman by the way (sorry about the vagueness).

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago | pl

    He needs to really be slow and gently with you new found activity, and lube is necessary for painfree pleasure!

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago | pl

    Several times isn't always enough time. Most people don't enjoy sex till their third time, it might be a little longer for you, no worries. The first few times can be emotionally great but physically it's something you just deal with it.

    If being new isn't the problem then the dick might be longer than the shaft. That's the usually cause of pain. If the friction gets bad go ahead and get lube.

    Also I have no idea if you're a man or woman, so writing up this advice was a challenge.

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