You see, they have every explanation for E.D. except the one that is most often the REAL reason - being grossed out by women our age.
They talk about blood pressure, meds, stress, etc...
Perhaps if they came out and told middle age men the truth they would say, "Sir, your wife is a lard ass eye sore. The human brain just does not get turned on by that".
BUT instead they give him pills to make his shit work involuntarily.
It is true that as people get older, they have more control over their sex drive but it is difficult to get an erection when the woman in his life looks like Roseanne Barr.
I agree about the part on my health problems, blood pressure meds, and my high blood pressure itself over the years (I was first diagnosed with blood pressure of 160/120 when I was 31, 12 years ago. And high blood pressure can damage the way blood flows through your vessels over time, including the blood vessels which causes erections.
I don't agree with the part about just being grossed out by women my age. I'm grossed out by private parts of women of any age. I'm disgusted by all private parts on anyone now, and private parts of men too, there's someone I told about my being grossed out by women's body parts, and he assumed that I must be gay. No, I'm not gay since I'm grossed out by body parts of women and men. I've become asexual. And when I was younger, I was turned on by women, but never men.
It isn't about being gay or not. Probably just health issues. Reproductive organs on men or women are not a pretty sight really.
I still think though that part of E.D. in general has to do with the horrid selection of women in their 40's. But of course medicine, media, etc choose to ignore that.
If it were women having a similar problem, the world would blame men instead of health.
That's true. Yes, reproductive organs on males and females just disgust me now. And I'm no longer watching porn also. I was only watching it to try and get hard and aroused, but not only was I getting absolutely no success with that, but I was getting grossed out by it too. I've accepted now my lack of sex drive and impotence, but still concerned about other possible underlying illness.
I'm seeing my doctor because I may have some other health issues where 1) my lack of drive is one of the symptoms, and 2) I've been getting other health aliments such as dizziness, weakness, and serious headaches where I thought I may even have an aneurysm (I have a post on the latter concern). I could have weakened and unhealthy blood vessels from years of high blood pressure (I've had readings of 170/120 before). I've had kidney failure also, I been in hospital for that before.
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You see, they have every explanation for E.D. except the one that is most often the REAL reason - being grossed out by women our age.
They talk about blood pressure, meds, stress, etc...
Perhaps if they came out and told middle age men the truth they would say, "Sir, your wife is a lard ass eye sore. The human brain just does not get turned on by that".
BUT instead they give him pills to make his shit work involuntarily.
It is true that as people get older, they have more control over their sex drive but it is difficult to get an erection when the woman in his life looks like Roseanne Barr.
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No, I'm not married, I'm not seeing anybody.
I agree about the part on my health problems, blood pressure meds, and my high blood pressure itself over the years (I was first diagnosed with blood pressure of 160/120 when I was 31, 12 years ago. And high blood pressure can damage the way blood flows through your vessels over time, including the blood vessels which causes erections.
I don't agree with the part about just being grossed out by women my age. I'm grossed out by private parts of women of any age. I'm disgusted by all private parts on anyone now, and private parts of men too, there's someone I told about my being grossed out by women's body parts, and he assumed that I must be gay. No, I'm not gay since I'm grossed out by body parts of women and men. I've become asexual. And when I was younger, I was turned on by women, but never men.
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It isn't about being gay or not. Probably just health issues. Reproductive organs on men or women are not a pretty sight really.
I still think though that part of E.D. in general has to do with the horrid selection of women in their 40's. But of course medicine, media, etc choose to ignore that.
If it were women having a similar problem, the world would blame men instead of health.
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That's true. Yes, reproductive organs on males and females just disgust me now. And I'm no longer watching porn also. I was only watching it to try and get hard and aroused, but not only was I getting absolutely no success with that, but I was getting grossed out by it too. I've accepted now my lack of sex drive and impotence, but still concerned about other possible underlying illness.
I'm seeing my doctor because I may have some other health issues where 1) my lack of drive is one of the symptoms, and 2) I've been getting other health aliments such as dizziness, weakness, and serious headaches where I thought I may even have an aneurysm (I have a post on the latter concern). I could have weakened and unhealthy blood vessels from years of high blood pressure (I've had readings of 170/120 before). I've had kidney failure also, I been in hospital for that before.
Oh well, that's life sometimes I guess
The male body can be really fascinating to look at ^^