Sex after marriage & baby??

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Hi Everyone,

Need to know if i will ever have sex again? since me and wife got married our sex life cooled off a bit then we had our baby son. Now it is non existent, please dont think im some sex mad insensitive bloke, i've spoken to friends who have kids and they tell me there sex life picked up again after a few months my son is now nearly 10 Months old and i've had sex about 3 times. Does anyone have a similar story is there light at the end of the tunnel please respond i'm going mad....

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    You are not bad for wanting to be intimate with your wife. You are not sex crazed or insensitive. Many people report this after they have kids. Kids are a lot of work.

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  • RunsInTheFamily
    12 years ago

    Shes had a baby, shes not going to feel very sexyat the moment.
    She'll also be exhausted.

    I suggest letting her know you still love her and think shes beautiful ect ect.

    Get a babysitter, send her to a spa for the afternoon and maybe rent her fave movie with take out for when she comes back.

    It just needs rekindling, its not gone forever.

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  • dynozark
    15 years ago

    Tell her that. if she screams at you or something, it's not your fault, you're a man with hormones and stills enjoys sex. It's her fault she can no longer satisfy her husband. Sex is an important part of marriage

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  • [Old Memory]
    16 years ago

    Sorry to hear.... Give it more time she will come around sooner or later.

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  • cocksuckerzunite
    12 years ago

    Nah, once that baby pops out, you've had it mate.

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