Yes, it's normal to be Pissed off by someone ordering you to be or do sonething.
That said, are they ordering you to or are they trying to give some advice on how to look better, as there is a difference?
I personally like giving people ideas on how I believe they'd look better, male and female because lets be honest, we all wanna look good. That said, I also like when people give me input on what would look good, which I've had plenty of by women, so it isn't necessarily a gender issue I'd say.
I'd think it's also fair to say that women also give you pointers on what looks good too, right?
That said, after reading back on your post, it honestly sounds like you're just explaining that some men tell women what men find attractive, which isn't necessarily bad, you can find plenty of women informing men on how to get a girl too b
Not really, I like it when people do so. I like the input of others on fashion and what looks good. People do it all the time, there's entire industries that do it aswell.
Imagine you're feeling good about how you look and having a good day, when someone stops you and says, "You should really wear a shorter skirt and show off those legs some more." Or, "That shirt is too baggy on you."
I think that's what she's saying, not just some advice on your hairstyle or something.
That's exactly what I'm talking about. Women have the right to just live their lives in public safely without being criticized for things that are nobody's business. This shouldn't be a statement that inspires a shitstorm of "It's not ALL men!" That's pretty much what's happened.
I don't need to, I've had that experience with the baggy shirt. Same with when I thought I styled my beard well, the way my hair was, and some pretty baggy trousers. I tend to strike up conversation with people making statements like that on why they don't think what I'm wearing or styled doesn't look too good and start talking about what does look good. I've gone through a ton of styles and the ones I like, I keep, even if people think it could be better with a bit of tweaking.
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Yes, it's normal to be Pissed off by someone ordering you to be or do sonething.
That said, are they ordering you to or are they trying to give some advice on how to look better, as there is a difference?
I personally like giving people ideas on how I believe they'd look better, male and female because lets be honest, we all wanna look good. That said, I also like when people give me input on what would look good, which I've had plenty of by women, so it isn't necessarily a gender issue I'd say.
I'd think it's also fair to say that women also give you pointers on what looks good too, right?
That said, after reading back on your post, it honestly sounds like you're just explaining that some men tell women what men find attractive, which isn't necessarily bad, you can find plenty of women informing men on how to get a girl too b
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Unsolicited advice on how to look better is a real bummer.
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Not really, I like it when people do so. I like the input of others on fashion and what looks good. People do it all the time, there's entire industries that do it aswell.
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Imagine you're feeling good about how you look and having a good day, when someone stops you and says, "You should really wear a shorter skirt and show off those legs some more." Or, "That shirt is too baggy on you."
I think that's what she's saying, not just some advice on your hairstyle or something.
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That's exactly what I'm talking about. Women have the right to just live their lives in public safely without being criticized for things that are nobody's business. This shouldn't be a statement that inspires a shitstorm of "It's not ALL men!" That's pretty much what's happened.
I don't need to, I've had that experience with the baggy shirt. Same with when I thought I styled my beard well, the way my hair was, and some pretty baggy trousers. I tend to strike up conversation with people making statements like that on why they don't think what I'm wearing or styled doesn't look too good and start talking about what does look good. I've gone through a ton of styles and the ones I like, I keep, even if people think it could be better with a bit of tweaking.
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The point is, saying that to someone is just rude and borderline harassment in some cases.
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I'm sure in some cases, yeah, I can agree but not in all cases.