Serious question Is it okay for my boyfriend to do this

So we're gonna go to Vegas for Halloween... I'm 18 and he's gonna be 27 soon.. so i can't get into bars / clubs but his friends are gong to and they're gonna wanna do that... he said he might go out with them for like an hour to a bar I think. But that would mean I would stay by myself in the hotel room alone.. is that fucked up? I'm annoyed. And when I bring it up he gets mad.

Is It Normal?
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  • He just wants to have a little fun with his buddies, and it's not his fault you can't come.

    If he was going to be out for the whole night, then that's a little different, but it's not that long; chill out Ms. Entitled.

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  • Date someone closer to your own age then you can do things together.

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  • If your boyfriend wants to do anything other than be with you the entire night than get another boyfriend.

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  • Wow. Really? You are irritated? So....he should completely drop his life and serve you? It's about compromise. Hence the one hour or so. This is why I don't date anyone who is not at least 21 and tbh I find most idiotic until around 25.

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  • He should find a way to spend time with you. Especially if he doesn't drink he shouldnt need to be at a bar or club without you

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  • It's not as if he's gonna leave you alone for the entire trip. A few hours out with his buddies is a normal thing. His life doesn't revolve around you, nor does yours resolve around him

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    • soo what do i do while he is out

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  • If you are 18 you should be able to get into a club or bar. They usually put a stamp or wristband on you if you are under 21 though, to insure that you don't drink.

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    • in las vegas that is not the case. at least for the clubs.

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  • If you want to spend more time with him on that rare trip and he refuses, then you might want to think about breaking up with him. It seems he cares more about his friends than you.

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    • Oh for fucks sake. She is a spoiled little shit. He should dump her. She has no reason to be upset.

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      • She has perfect reason to be upset. Fine, she is probably taking this too seriously, but she has a reason.

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        • Then write the reason, how hard is that? She has responded enough and I have yet to see a valid reason unless it's that he is a drug addict/alcoholic. That doesn't seem to be her main concern tho.

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          • Nevermind, I misread. I thought she said he will regularly be going out with his friends while she stays in the hotel. There's no reason for her to be so upset over this, I agree.

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            • why tho. what am i supposed to do

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          • why is it not ok to be upset

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  • You are the grandpa of Charles Manson.

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  • Come up to Alberta, Canada. The drinking age is 18 here.

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  • Are none of his buddies bringing their gf's,or are they more similar in age? Is he insisting you go? Could be he wants you there as eye candy for his buddy's

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    • What do you mean eye candy for his buddy's ? All his friends drink and I think one of like 3 guys is bringing their wife and she can drink.. he invited me to go

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  • If I were your boyfriend I would not be going out with friends and leaving you at the hotel. Sorry, but it is pretty fucked up.

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    • Aw thanks man. What should I tell him? Without him getting mad?

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      • Don't say anything (it already happened so there's no point). Next time he plans something ask if him if his friends are going. If they are, make up some reason why you can't go. Honestly though, your boyfriend's an asshole for doing this in the first place. I wouldn't worry about making him mad.

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        • it didn't already happen tho. it's in two weeks...

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  • It's kind of hard to answer this. How many days will you be out there? If it is only one night, then yes, I'd say it's pretty messed up. But if you guys are going to be out there for several nights, I fail to see the harm in him hanging out with his friends for an hour or two. If anything, you guys should have just stayed local and tried to find a few good haunted houses or something. I realize drinking isn't the only thing to do in vegas, and I don't condone getting totally hammered, but drinking and gambling are a package deal!!!!

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    • We're gonna be there from Friday afternoon-evening - Monday morning most likely. The trip isn't even 100% sure but we've been taking about it. Plus, my boyfriend doesn't drink. So it's harder for me to understand why he wants to go to a bar ... I get he wants to hang with his friends but I fail to understand why it needs to be a bar. Like why can't we all just go out to dinner one night ?!?

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  • They need to find something you can all do together. There's plenty of things 18 years old can do.

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    • They wanna go to clubs and bars mostly honestly. And if I say that to my bf he'd get mad

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  • I think that it's completely normal. You're underage and he should get that. If you're so annoyed with it, tell him to stop talking about it in front of you or leave the room.

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  • This depends if you are okay with it.

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    • Not rly. But if I say anything he'll prob get mad

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      • If you are upset talk to your boyfriend for it. Communication is important in all relationships.

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  • So if your gonna date a guy who's more an adult than you and he's like older and gonna be going to bars, so yeah, maybe you should think I'm gonna go for a guy my own age cuz he's not gonna get into bars, either so we be ok?

    Maybe take the time he's gone and take an English and Grammar class? You write like a 14 year old. If that. Damn..

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    • and you think like a 14 year old. it shows to everybody. you have a tell.

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      • how do i think like a 14 year old

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      • That was intentional, asshole...Follow along, shall we? Or would numbered cue cards be better? Maybe some charts or photos?

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        • WHAT ARE U TALKING ABOUT. WHAT WAS INTENTIONAL

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      • What? HOW? Lolol

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  • he probably has plans to screw a hooker with his buddies, so here is what you do. find a cute dude during that hour and fuck his brains out, them when your boy gets back let him eat you out. funny as shit right.

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    • How do people find Hookers in Vegas..?

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      • The state of Nevada is the only jurisdiction in the United States where prostitution is permitted. .... 'entertainment' or 'companionship' are ubiquitous, with a reported 104 pages of a Las Vegas yellow pages directory devoted to "entertainers". cell phones . how many can screw a hooker in an hour? all of them . dump this dip shit now . they chose Vegas for one reason only,

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        • prostitution is illegal in vegas, nevada law only permits it in counties with a population under 400,000 Ironically 60% of prostitution still takes place illegally in las vegas.

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          • How do guys get one in there room? If me and my bf r in the same room, obvi he wouldn't get one ?! He would never cheat anyways lol

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          • i guess thats why the article says its permitted and not legal

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        • But I'm going with him? And he doesn't do that stuff haahha

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          • Right my man doesn't do that just his drunk buddies right? they picked Vegas for a reason and its not to fuck you either. how can you be so naive

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            • Exactly. You can get drunk anywhere. Her boyfriend is getting laid.

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            • So everyone who goes to Vegas wants to hookup with a hooker? My bf invited me to go... lol. Not everyone likes that shit

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  • You may be annoyed, but you're also selfish and insecure. You really are an 18 year old girl, aren't you?

    Getting drunk with your friends in Vegas sounds like a blast. Don't drag your boyfriend down with you.

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