it seems you have trust and attachment issues prob from divorce... i suggest controlling them or getting help from a professional. Eventually she will assume you are extremely possessive, and hide things from you... not important things... just reasons to be alone and away from you.
i had a boyfriend similar to you... i would be working, and exactly the second i was supposed to get out he would call... i'm an adult....i dont need to be kept on his schedule... so i would say i'll be out in 20... and just have a drink or two then go home. i've never cheated on any boyfriend ever... and the things i had to hide from him were trivial.... so i couldnt figure it out.... so i left.
it's good to be apart in a relationship or it wont work... you are trying too hard, and will scare her away. seriously...take it from a girl that's had a guy that behaves like you.
Seperation Anxiety re: girlfriend
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it seems you have trust and attachment issues prob from divorce... i suggest controlling them or getting help from a professional. Eventually she will assume you are extremely possessive, and hide things from you... not important things... just reasons to be alone and away from you.
i had a boyfriend similar to you... i would be working, and exactly the second i was supposed to get out he would call... i'm an adult....i dont need to be kept on his schedule... so i would say i'll be out in 20... and just have a drink or two then go home. i've never cheated on any boyfriend ever... and the things i had to hide from him were trivial.... so i couldnt figure it out.... so i left.
it's good to be apart in a relationship or it wont work... you are trying too hard, and will scare her away. seriously...take it from a girl that's had a guy that behaves like you.