Selfish douchebag or something deeper?
I’ve been dating this guy for a few months, (I’m 19 and he’s 22) and he’s really needy. I make more money and work more than he does, and he constantly tries to mooch cigarettes off me (he smokes almost my entire pack everytime we hang out) and asks for tons of other shit like backrubs, folding his laundry, and he even asks me to buy things for him sometimes. It’s really frustrating because he never gives back, and I felt super used for awhile because of it, but I’ve noticed it’s how he is with everybody he talks to so I’ve stopped taking it personally. However out of frustration I called him out on his shit and then he got mad at me saying he was offended and that “every girl says they’re being used” and he’s used to it. I’m the only girl who’s ever approached him before, (people think I’m really out of his league) and so I know he doesn’t want to lose me to at least some degree. He has an eerie vibe and he told me the same night that you could never know how a person actually is in so little time. And, I’m picking up some obvious signs he’s probably a little sketchy in the head. (Because so am I so I can see through him) he doesn’t have a mom, (and I’ve seen pictures of her, she’s really beautiful, but he doesn’t talk about her) and he has to take care of his handicap dad everyday. Sooooo what do you think?