See something romantic, and someone you dislike pops into your head?

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Okay, is it normal that I will be thinking "Oh, wouldn't that be romantic?" Then all the sudden, a person I dislike will pop into my thoughts and I will think "gross," and hope it never happens in real life. It freaks me out. O_o Has it ever happened to anyone else?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    It sounds like you're more attracted to that person that you'd like to admit... even if it means trying to convince yourself that you're not.

    Otherwise you wouldn't really think of that person every time romance comes up...

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    It is normal everytime I think of something romantic I think of person I dislike then I force myself to think of my bf. It just means u hope it won't happen or u r starting to like him/her.

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  • Troll
    11 years ago | pl

    Poop.

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  • YBNORML
    11 years ago | pl

    The reaction is normal but is something you need to address now. It needs to be corrected and cleared.

    No information is given on why this person is distasteful. Are they an acquaintance you find unattractive or a former romantic partner? Or an acquaintance that REMINDS you of someone else that you should love but hurt you?

    Romance/intimacy is important. If you are having problems with strong emotions coming up and blocking each time you think about intimacy it would be a good idea to find a professional to help you clear that up.

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