I'm going to put myself on a limb here and risk sounding sexist , however I do have to ask your gender in determining an answer. If you are a female there may be a deeper concern because MOST of us girls are born with different "motherly" instincts and feel comfortable with enough knowledge that holding a baby or child feels natural - so if you are a female - there may be other answers that connect to that situation.
HOWEVER: Alot of males feel uneasy and quite possibly insecure because they don't have the natural instinct that females do - Esp. If they have next to none experience with children and infants. This is totally normal and in fact my boyfriend is one of those guys. If you are male and hope to have children one day , don't let this worry you - natural love and caring will come on it's own when it comes to your child PLUS lots of help from your partner :)
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I'm going to put myself on a limb here and risk sounding sexist , however I do have to ask your gender in determining an answer. If you are a female there may be a deeper concern because MOST of us girls are born with different "motherly" instincts and feel comfortable with enough knowledge that holding a baby or child feels natural - so if you are a female - there may be other answers that connect to that situation.
HOWEVER: Alot of males feel uneasy and quite possibly insecure because they don't have the natural instinct that females do - Esp. If they have next to none experience with children and infants. This is totally normal and in fact my boyfriend is one of those guys. If you are male and hope to have children one day , don't let this worry you - natural love and caring will come on it's own when it comes to your child PLUS lots of help from your partner :)
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You said it all.