Scared to have an orgasm...

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While my boyfriend and I are having sex, I feel this pressure that kind of hurts but it feels good, and I get the feeling like I'm holding pee in. I push him away when we get to that point because it gets too intense and I get discouraged that nothing will happen. I thought that I'd had an orgasm before, but I don't know because I've never felt this feeling that he gives me.. He tells me it's just an orgasm and not to be afraid, will I squirt if I let go, and how long is it going to take after the pee feeling for it to actually happen??????

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  • old_guy
    8 years ago | pl

    get a towel under you to catch any squirt do it with a pretty full bladder as it will go through the need to pee feeling very much quicker and get to the fun orgasm feeling and of course when you are having sex you really cannot pee that part is turned off . After you come round from the sex feelings go and pee you will be rewarded with an after shock orgasm and of course helps prevent UTI as it flushes the urethra well

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  • mateo
    12 years ago | pl

    yeah,girls tell me it feels like your about to pee,but just do it,let it go,even if you do pee.you will probably be embarrased because u will squirt everywhere and make a huge mess,but dont b.just say *uck it,im going to soak the bed

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  • ChloeeWells
    12 years ago | pl

    this happens to me too and im embarrassed incase i pee:/

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    The first time you have an orgasm it's so intense it feels like you won't even be able to handle it and stuff but after you did it it's so worthit

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  • WiseOldSage
    13 years ago | pl

    I say to just go with the flow, but seriously, this isn't exactly the best website to ask for help.

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