Scared of rejecting you

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For some reason, I don't mind being rejected and I don't mind being alone. However, when I'm the one who has to reject people I feel really scared. I also feel sad that I have to let them down. INN? Is it healthy?

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Based on 62 votes (47 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    You are a nice person to be so considerate of other people's feelings.

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  • Aleks85
    12 years ago

    So if I ask you to have sex with me you will?

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  • Clairvoyance
    13 years ago

    If you have a hard time rejecting people you don't know all that well, then you care about people a bit too much lol. But in my experience it's ALOT harder to reject people you are close with than it is to be rejected by them... and anyone who says differently has 0 self-esteem... Normal though.

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  • steph19913
    13 years ago

    I'm the same way!!!!!!!

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  • weshitude
    14 years ago

    u're considerate of other people feelings that's good, but u need to thoughen up a little bit

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    it's normal to feel that way if you have empathy for people.

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  • screaminasian
    14 years ago

    ^^ ya that's a good thing. but you have to balance with being assertive enough to allow yourself to be happy

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