Scared of getting down

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Okay so if you knew me you would never expect me to be scared of sex, kissing and anything to do with either.

I'm 18, im not a virgin (well...) and I've done just about everything
But I still just hate it, its scares me that im doing it all wrong.
The reason this would shock people that know me.. I talk about sex all the time. I'm like a guy, talk about getting down and just anything sexual. I flirt with everyone and act like im a w**** I guess.. but really im not.

Is it normal to be scared im not doing things right?

(I don't care if its normal to talk about sex, I'll still do it whatever)

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Based on 9 votes (6 yes)
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  • assh0le
    12 years ago

    You've had more practice than you realise. One of the first things you did as a newborn was sucking on a tit or bottle and later pacifiers and ice-pops etc.

    You've actually been a cocksucker all your life and didn't know it haha

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  • Alwayscometogethernomatterwhat
    14 years ago

    It's not that common for a girl to be afraid of going down on a guy.

    I think you're just insecure about sex and you try to hide it by talking about it alot.

    Ask your boyfriend what he likes and then go along with that. Let him teach you and don't be afraid to somewhat "confess" that you're insecure about how to do it. If that's a little too much for you to handle, try watching porn that involves blowjobs.

    Basic ingredients for good blowjob:

    - Lots of saliva. The last thing a guy wants is to feel like he's shoving his dick up a vaccuum cleaner's hose.
    - Use your hands, not only your mouth. Hands are an important tool to master the art of giving blowjobs. Don't be afraid to jerk it.
    - Start off nice and slow for the first 5-10 minutes, then slowly go faster every few minutes.
    - Make circular motions with your tong, and definitly try to lick in a horizontal 8-shape.

    I wish you good luck and god speed!

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