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Is it normal that I’m scared of being gay? To the point that Iv even been with guys to prove to myself that I didn’t like it!
Not sure why its so abhorrent. Who you have sex with is between you, the other person, and the walls within.
I was afraid to come out as BI because i went to a very strict church, but now I'm atheist I don't care anymore so you shouldn't have to care or be afraid if you are a gay.
If you are gay then deal with the cards that you are dealing with.
But I like women
don't worry either way. imo many people are too obsessed with forcefully labeling themselves even if it causes them distress. if you're not sure... fine. there aren't many certainties in life after all. i'd say pay no mind to it now, and if/when you find someone who you're attracted to and is attracted to you back, ...well their gender wouldn't, or shouldn't be a concern, right?
You shouldn’t be “scared” of it, because it seems almost certain you are either gay or bi. So, your next step should probably be just how to accept it.
Tried it once? Possibly not gay. Tried it anymore than that? Likely gay.
If you didn’t like it, why worry? The thing is that being scared of it is a guilt trip laid on you by parents and/or religion. If you are gay, go with it. You’re not going to change.
You sound like you're on fire.
You sound like you're gay, man.
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