I really dont understand why men perpetuate the myth that a bigger dick is a better dick because it is so not true.
Big dicks hurt and most women dont like them. I prefer average to smaller dicks. Doesnt hurt during sex, easier to give an HJ or BJ to a guy with a smaller sized dick too!
My bf is a little on the bigger side and there are certain positions we cant do for a long time because it just hurts after awhile. Sad to say but I'd rather have sex with him when he is semi erect then fully cos im not in pain.
Lol, what's with this mrmatt guy. Sounds to me like he's got anger issues about his penis size or the racial MYTHS that effect certain ones (which is normal).
Again not true of all women..you realy got to wonder about the women who need or require a huge penis...can you say loosey goosey anyone lol! It's really silly of you to make a blanket statement that women like big dicks. I'm a woman who knows a lot of other women, we talk about sex. Trust me size really isn't a huge issue (no pun intended).
Unless you have an abnormally small dick girls generally don't care. Dick size only becomes a problem if it is affecting the quality of sex..some people's parts just don't fit together well. But believe me its not the size that counts it how you use it. I had one bf with a ten inch dick(a white guy) and he was TERRIBLE in bed because he didn't know what the hell he was doing. And I've had men more on the average side who were amazing because they knew how to use what God gave them.
Of course they are going to tell you its a good thing and compliment you if they like you and want to have sex with you...DUH! We women totally understand how important cock size it is you people. And if we can throw you a compliment to make you feel good we will.
Also, the whole myth about penis size according to race isn't always true either.
My friend who is into black guys has seen black dudes with smaller wangs.
I'm into white men and I'd say like 95% of the guys I was with had larger than usual dicks.
Bigger than usual meaning bigger than the general average for most men which is around 6 inches.
Sure its MY usual, but it isn't the "usual" standard for the majority of men out there. Sorry you misunderstood the context in which I was using the word usual...smart-ass.
I figured that but doesn't this make you question the statistics? I've had the same overall experience and things just don't add up. I don't believe the statistics. Besides who the hell has the job of measuring boners? Where is this information coming from?
I heard the same thing about black guys all having big dicks is a myth to and I believe it, but the whole red headed guys having big dicks myth seems to hold true. It's funny that the worlds largest erection record holder belongs to a middle age kinda fat, kinda geeky white guy being over nine inches soft and over 13.5 inches hard, all natural. He seems kinda miserable after all that to, maybe he doesn't get laid that much cause its "to big". He got offers to do porn but turned it down, which is understandable. I mean not everyone wants to be objectified for there body parts, guys and girls alike.
"I really dont understand why men perpetuate the myth that a bigger dick is a better dick because it is so not true."
Your kind of misunderstanding, they're not saying it cause they think it's better for a women (I mean not entirely), they're saying it cause it makes them feel better than each other, its a bragging thing, like they're more of a man cause of it. Kind of like how women think the bigger the boobs the better the boobs because its not so true either. Same principle. They're not saying it cause they think it's better for a men (I mean not entirely), they're saying it cause it makes them feel better than each other, its a bragging thing, like they're more of a woman cause of it.
When in reality its not the size of the breasts its more about the shape. All breasts look nice when they are rounded out in a bra, but when it comes off and the D cups loose their round shape they loose the appeal to, take the bra off a B cup and they keep the round shape they keep the appeal. But personally as far as looks go, I like full B cups anyways and tend to look and feel more physically attracted to girls with them, they look more proportioned and seem to fit slim (not skinny) fairly healthy female bodies like they belong there, were a girl with large breasts and a slim (not skinny) fairly healthy body, it looks kinda goofy on them like they don't belong but if I still find them overall physically attractive and they are sweethearts it doesn't really matter in the end anyways.
I know this. And the insecurity is still perpetuating the myth that bigger is better. Take buddy's comment in response to me claiming that women like big dicks. What a silly, untrue, blanket statement to make. Of course it makes guys feel superior to one another if they (think) have a big dick. They think that my bigger they are more manly, and that women will find them more sexually appealing and that they can satisfy a woman better than a man with a "small" one. Again it comes down to a security issue, and the need to feel superior. Its an easy ego boost at the end of the day. Our society conditions men to think that bigger is better. Look at most male porn stars they are hung like horses. Then you have those ads late at night for "male enhancement" products. Those ads always have some woman in them claiming how much better her sex life is since her partner has been using the products. The ads will claim that you will have a better sex life and be over all more desirable to women in general. Society created the myth and men perpetuate it by buying into all the hype and nonsense because they are conditioned tom be insecure about their manhood. And instead of seeing things for what they really are and talking to real women about what "better" actually is and realizing that size really isn't that big of an issue, they they just continue the vicious cycle of low self esteem and emasculation because it is just easier to give into society's bullshit than to think outside the box.
The exact same thing goes for women who think that bigger breasts are automatically better. Again the media and society perpetuated this myth and when you have bigger breasts of course it will automatically boost your ego and make you feel superior and more sexually attractive to men. These women are again, not willing to think outside the box and realize that not all men like big oversized breasts. But, once again, it is easier to give into the hype than to think outside the box.
My point is all this silly "bigger is better" thinking could be eradicated if more and more people opened their eyes, realized they have been brainwashed by the standards set for society by the media, and realized that just because they don't always meet those standards doesn't mean there is anything wrong with them or that they are unattractive.
So yes I do understand EXACTLY, I think you my friend, didn't stop to ask...WHY the idea of a big penis (or breasts) is an ego booster to begin with.
I like you! You think like me, this all makes perfect sense to me. I put a lot of thought in this type of thing far to much as it is, such as gender roles, gender stereotypes,social norms etc..I sat here for an hour thinking of this more trying to cater an answer to what the root of this idea is, and every time I could trace it back to something in either my shorter or your thorough reply. This question is already answered. Everyone wants a full happy life. What is happiness to you? What you want for yourself or what your told you want.
Happiness for everyone should be what they want for themselves of their own free thinking mind, not based on whatever programming and conditioning they have been subjected to throughout their lives. Sadly, only a handful of people really know how to step out of that zone and question the messages that are put out their.
The greatest freedom any person can ever have is the freedom gained by not caring what other people think. This is the first step to true fulfilment in life.
I always tell people to follow their bliss whatever it may be and not to give a rat's ass what anyone thinks at the end of the day. The second you stop caring about what other's think of you and the way you are the second they lose power over you and that's the second you reach true self liberation.
When it comes to body image more men and women need to start shedding and letting go of what they have been conditioned to think is attractive as deemed by society and should not base their worth as a man or woman by those ridiculous standards.
Saying it's big just to be nice
← View full post
How can they lie to you about your size, you KNOW how big it is, unless you didn't learn math or how to use a ruler.
Over six inches = good
under six inches = bad
--
Sailor_Cosmos
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
3
3
-
Unimportant
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
I really dont understand why men perpetuate the myth that a bigger dick is a better dick because it is so not true.
Big dicks hurt and most women dont like them. I prefer average to smaller dicks. Doesnt hurt during sex, easier to give an HJ or BJ to a guy with a smaller sized dick too!
My bf is a little on the bigger side and there are certain positions we cant do for a long time because it just hurts after awhile. Sad to say but I'd rather have sex with him when he is semi erect then fully cos im not in pain.
--
[Old Memory]
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
1
1
-
sYki
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
Well i'm quite above average (especially for a white guy) and I have been told it's a good thing. Women do like big dicks.
--
boston12
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
1
1
-
wigsplitz
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
1
1
-
Mrmatt
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
-
Sailor_Cosmos
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
ur a real tosser, big cocks r great if ur loose but most of us prefer our vaginas not to b shredded every tym u want sex!
--
[Old Memory]
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
-1
-1
Hahahaha, spot the virgin lol.
--
boston12
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
u really hav no idea do u.
--
[Old Memory]
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
How to spell?
That's true, better on the big side than the small side.
Said by a guy who claims to have a big dick?
Ha ha, of course that's what you think. Div
--
[Old Memory]
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
No, I'm just repeating what I've heard. Infact I don't even know any black people.
And I made no "claim", just a mathematically correct statement.
--
sYki
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
Lol, what's with this mrmatt guy. Sounds to me like he's got anger issues about his penis size or the racial MYTHS that effect certain ones (which is normal).
--
[Old Memory]
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
It would seem that he is a typical pin dick, racist, homophobe.
Again not true of all women..you realy got to wonder about the women who need or require a huge penis...can you say loosey goosey anyone lol! It's really silly of you to make a blanket statement that women like big dicks. I'm a woman who knows a lot of other women, we talk about sex. Trust me size really isn't a huge issue (no pun intended).
Unless you have an abnormally small dick girls generally don't care. Dick size only becomes a problem if it is affecting the quality of sex..some people's parts just don't fit together well. But believe me its not the size that counts it how you use it. I had one bf with a ten inch dick(a white guy) and he was TERRIBLE in bed because he didn't know what the hell he was doing. And I've had men more on the average side who were amazing because they knew how to use what God gave them.
Of course they are going to tell you its a good thing and compliment you if they like you and want to have sex with you...DUH! We women totally understand how important cock size it is you people. And if we can throw you a compliment to make you feel good we will.
Also, the whole myth about penis size according to race isn't always true either.
My friend who is into black guys has seen black dudes with smaller wangs.
I'm into white men and I'd say like 95% of the guys I was with had larger than usual dicks.
--
wigsplitz
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
-
sYki
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
-
[Old Memory]
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
"95% of the guys I was with had larger than usual dicks."
95%? Then, um, they would be the USUAL, not bigger than usual. The 5% would be the unusual ones.
--
Sailor_Cosmos
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
Bigger than usual meaning bigger than the general average for most men which is around 6 inches.
Sure its MY usual, but it isn't the "usual" standard for the majority of men out there. Sorry you misunderstood the context in which I was using the word usual...smart-ass.
--
wigsplitz
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
See More Comments =>
I figured that but doesn't this make you question the statistics? I've had the same overall experience and things just don't add up. I don't believe the statistics. Besides who the hell has the job of measuring boners? Where is this information coming from?
I heard the same thing about black guys all having big dicks is a myth to and I believe it, but the whole red headed guys having big dicks myth seems to hold true. It's funny that the worlds largest erection record holder belongs to a middle age kinda fat, kinda geeky white guy being over nine inches soft and over 13.5 inches hard, all natural. He seems kinda miserable after all that to, maybe he doesn't get laid that much cause its "to big". He got offers to do porn but turned it down, which is understandable. I mean not everyone wants to be objectified for there body parts, guys and girls alike.
--
Sailor_Cosmos
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
-
Mrmatt
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
THIS EXACTLY!!!
You got it!
+100000
Everybody is different.
A myth is exactly that. A myth.
Moron
--
sYki
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
Umm, I think you missed something. Read the message I was replying to, I was simply agreeing that it was in fact, a myth cause everyone is different.
Ya.
"I really dont understand why men perpetuate the myth that a bigger dick is a better dick because it is so not true."
Your kind of misunderstanding, they're not saying it cause they think it's better for a women (I mean not entirely), they're saying it cause it makes them feel better than each other, its a bragging thing, like they're more of a man cause of it. Kind of like how women think the bigger the boobs the better the boobs because its not so true either. Same principle. They're not saying it cause they think it's better for a men (I mean not entirely), they're saying it cause it makes them feel better than each other, its a bragging thing, like they're more of a woman cause of it.
When in reality its not the size of the breasts its more about the shape. All breasts look nice when they are rounded out in a bra, but when it comes off and the D cups loose their round shape they loose the appeal to, take the bra off a B cup and they keep the round shape they keep the appeal. But personally as far as looks go, I like full B cups anyways and tend to look and feel more physically attracted to girls with them, they look more proportioned and seem to fit slim (not skinny) fairly healthy female bodies like they belong there, were a girl with large breasts and a slim (not skinny) fairly healthy body, it looks kinda goofy on them like they don't belong but if I still find them overall physically attractive and they are sweethearts it doesn't really matter in the end anyways.
--
Sailor_Cosmos
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
2
2
-
boston12
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
I know this. And the insecurity is still perpetuating the myth that bigger is better. Take buddy's comment in response to me claiming that women like big dicks. What a silly, untrue, blanket statement to make. Of course it makes guys feel superior to one another if they (think) have a big dick. They think that my bigger they are more manly, and that women will find them more sexually appealing and that they can satisfy a woman better than a man with a "small" one. Again it comes down to a security issue, and the need to feel superior. Its an easy ego boost at the end of the day. Our society conditions men to think that bigger is better. Look at most male porn stars they are hung like horses. Then you have those ads late at night for "male enhancement" products. Those ads always have some woman in them claiming how much better her sex life is since her partner has been using the products. The ads will claim that you will have a better sex life and be over all more desirable to women in general. Society created the myth and men perpetuate it by buying into all the hype and nonsense because they are conditioned tom be insecure about their manhood. And instead of seeing things for what they really are and talking to real women about what "better" actually is and realizing that size really isn't that big of an issue, they they just continue the vicious cycle of low self esteem and emasculation because it is just easier to give into society's bullshit than to think outside the box.
The exact same thing goes for women who think that bigger breasts are automatically better. Again the media and society perpetuated this myth and when you have bigger breasts of course it will automatically boost your ego and make you feel superior and more sexually attractive to men. These women are again, not willing to think outside the box and realize that not all men like big oversized breasts. But, once again, it is easier to give into the hype than to think outside the box.
My point is all this silly "bigger is better" thinking could be eradicated if more and more people opened their eyes, realized they have been brainwashed by the standards set for society by the media, and realized that just because they don't always meet those standards doesn't mean there is anything wrong with them or that they are unattractive.
So yes I do understand EXACTLY, I think you my friend, didn't stop to ask...WHY the idea of a big penis (or breasts) is an ego booster to begin with.
--
sYki
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
I like you! You think like me, this all makes perfect sense to me. I put a lot of thought in this type of thing far to much as it is, such as gender roles, gender stereotypes,social norms etc..I sat here for an hour thinking of this more trying to cater an answer to what the root of this idea is, and every time I could trace it back to something in either my shorter or your thorough reply. This question is already answered. Everyone wants a full happy life. What is happiness to you? What you want for yourself or what your told you want.
--
Sailor_Cosmos
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
Thank you :)
Happiness for everyone should be what they want for themselves of their own free thinking mind, not based on whatever programming and conditioning they have been subjected to throughout their lives. Sadly, only a handful of people really know how to step out of that zone and question the messages that are put out their.
The greatest freedom any person can ever have is the freedom gained by not caring what other people think. This is the first step to true fulfilment in life.
I always tell people to follow their bliss whatever it may be and not to give a rat's ass what anyone thinks at the end of the day. The second you stop caring about what other's think of you and the way you are the second they lose power over you and that's the second you reach true self liberation.
When it comes to body image more men and women need to start shedding and letting go of what they have been conditioned to think is attractive as deemed by society and should not base their worth as a man or woman by those ridiculous standards.
saying that girls with d cups dont keep a round shape wen bra is off is just dumb. so uve seen every womans d cup tits to justify ur statement?
A nose over six inches is good?!
Pinocchio is really relieved, I think.