i know you said that you want to get away without talking to her, but some kind of dialogue is going to be hard to avoid if you want to break it off forever :S i think you should sit down and tell her why you don't feel as close to her anymore, and why you think you should stop being best mates. it's prob going to be painful, but i think it would be best for you both to know exactly where you stand.
alternatively, you could just treat her badly until she leaves you alone. but that would make you just as bad as her, and you'd probably feel crap afterwards.
Thanks for the advice. I would love to tell her why I think we need to end our friendship. There is a problem with that: she cries every time we get in an argument. She thinks that I am jumping on her and she "supposedly" sensitive, although I can never tell because of how crappy she is to me. I don't want to have to deal with the bullcrap that will come from this. If you have any idea on how to get around this whole crying thing, then I am open to it. Thank you again....although the last point you made is something I have daydreamed about doing, I do fear karmic retribution. Thanks!!
well, I suppose if you're really unable to deal with her face to face you could tell her over msn or over the phone or something like that. But one way or another you're going to have to make it clear to her that you don't want to be as close to her and why or she'll come after you to find out, and probably end up more upset in the long run.
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i know you said that you want to get away without talking to her, but some kind of dialogue is going to be hard to avoid if you want to break it off forever :S i think you should sit down and tell her why you don't feel as close to her anymore, and why you think you should stop being best mates. it's prob going to be painful, but i think it would be best for you both to know exactly where you stand.
alternatively, you could just treat her badly until she leaves you alone. but that would make you just as bad as her, and you'd probably feel crap afterwards.
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Thanks for the advice. I would love to tell her why I think we need to end our friendship. There is a problem with that: she cries every time we get in an argument. She thinks that I am jumping on her and she "supposedly" sensitive, although I can never tell because of how crappy she is to me. I don't want to have to deal with the bullcrap that will come from this. If you have any idea on how to get around this whole crying thing, then I am open to it. Thank you again....although the last point you made is something I have daydreamed about doing, I do fear karmic retribution. Thanks!!
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She could possibly have "feelings" for you. She sounds kinda lessie. Are you a LIBRA?? such ppl pleasing perfectionists
well, I suppose if you're really unable to deal with her face to face you could tell her over msn or over the phone or something like that. But one way or another you're going to have to make it clear to her that you don't want to be as close to her and why or she'll come after you to find out, and probably end up more upset in the long run.