Rough deep throat, is this normal?

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I've heard about this sort of thing as a porn thing or whatever. But I've been with multiple guys now who like to do deep throat roughly. My current bf brought it up when we were talking about sex, he said it was something he and his last gf did. Several of my friends have also told me they do this for their guy.

I hate gagging and slobbering but apparently that feels good on their dick? I mean, I like the idea of doing freaky stuff and turning a guy on like that, but thats the ONLY thing I like about it. Its not as "easy" as it looks. It always gets too much with the head shoving which really makes me choke, I'm not even really good at deep throat, but of course it seems like the rougher it is makes it better I guess? go figure. I mean, I want to do this rough stuff, I just don't actually enjoy doing it. Yet to me it seems like every guy is turned on with it.

Is it normal? Have you done this? Am I the only one who does not really enjoy doing it, or does it get easier eventually?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I read this whole thing with my mouth open and I didn't even realise till now..

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  • VSpnklvr
    8 years ago

    Getting deepthroated is a great feeling and is awesome when a girl does. That being said I've only been with a few girls who have been able to do it and it's never like the throat fucking you see in porn. I'm not crazy about having my business covered in spit and saliva.

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  • Cheese123
    10 years ago

    It's partly porn culture. We get off to rough sex because we're conditioned to orgasm with rough sex as a visual aid. Also it's so kinky and manly feeling

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    I'm identical. If he stopped liking it half-way through I'd stop and never look back: but I love it when he loves it.
    My guy loves it rough (but he's really cautious and gentle at the same time), and loves gagging, choking, slurps, swallowing and hard sucking so I just try my best. If it's becoming too much, take a breather, suck the tip or just kiss/lick til you catch your breath and pull yourself together.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    It's all in the position and there is gargle to reduce the gag reflex, and how great you are for going the extra mile to please your special guy, I am sure it makes him feel extra special!

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  • LilalovesLondon
    12 years ago

    If you don't like it then don't do it honey.

    But here's a little tip, it's much easier if you lay on the bed with your head hanging off (as in upside down) and deep throat them that way. It opens up your throat and makes for less gagging. I got told that tip by a porn star and it really does work.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It's nice you want to do it but as AngAnders and Foco said, it's better to be honest.

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    It sounds like you've deep throated before and you know you don't like it. If you hate it then don't do it. Tell you bf that he needs to accept that and by asking you to deep throat is asking too much. There are other freaky things than deep throat so I'm positive your sex life won't die if that's why you were worried.

    Most girls do not enjoy deep throat.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    it may get a little easier but if you don't like it, then just be honest with your bf and tell him. There's only so much a person can do to sacrifice their own comfort for someone else. I think deep throating is one of things you either like or you don't. I don't know if it's something you can learn to love.

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