Is it not normal for me to be gay anyway ?
i don't know y you two defend the rights of homosexuals males here..i think i wrought my story to have answers for my situations... and anyway i don't feel sexual desire to the girls it is more emotional than sexual (but it is stronger than my feeling with guys!!emotionally)and this is the problem i had sexual desires to guys in my life but it comes so fast then it goes..it is just strong at the moment!..then when it goes i didn't think about it!! that's y i said "sex with guys is fun,play..(& i love it)" because i feel excited to do that.. (ps:i am virgin in my country there is no way to have sex before marriage so i don't have this experiment) all i know now is that i kissed a guy and i didn't like it and it felt disgusting that he enjoy it while I'm not.. i can't try anything sexual this is my society i just can't! i feel i need to rush to know my sexuality but this is not option for me..
i don't know!!!maybe i was not lucky with the boys i had dated!...ok i had never want a guy and my feelings with the girls are stronger but not that sexual feeling!
So i am not sure about i am homosexual but i am sure that i'm into girls.. i think it's too hard for me to say I'm lez i feel i am not lez !! I Felt when i read ur comments that it is So clear i am lez Y u two think it's that clear!!?? it's not clear to me!!!
I don't think your a lesbien, only you can figure out your sexuality. Talking to other people about how you feel should help though. Even if you are a lesbien or bi that wouldent be the end of the world I know a lot of people that are gay or bi and I don't consider that abnormal. It's possible that you just don't like the guys that you've dated and you havent met the right one. Personally I'm more atracted to guys but I am more likely to emotionally love a girl and I think I just need to meet the right girl before I can really be sexually atracted to her. Only you can really find out what your sexual orientation is, we can't tell you. You could try dating more feminine guys to see if you like them emotionally. Anyways good luck with everything I hope you get everything figured out.
romantically attracted to girls and sexualy attracted to guys
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Lol funny you say that because I just signed up to ask a very similar question, but I think I have a good enough answer now.
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Is it not normal for me to be gay anyway ?
i don't know y you two defend the rights of homosexuals males here..i think i wrought my story to have answers for my situations... and anyway i don't feel sexual desire to the girls it is more emotional than sexual (but it is stronger than my feeling with guys!!emotionally)and this is the problem i had sexual desires to guys in my life but it comes so fast then it goes..it is just strong at the moment!..then when it goes i didn't think about it!! that's y i said "sex with guys is fun,play..(& i love it)" because i feel excited to do that.. (ps:i am virgin in my country there is no way to have sex before marriage so i don't have this experiment) all i know now is that i kissed a guy and i didn't like it and it felt disgusting that he enjoy it while I'm not.. i can't try anything sexual this is my society i just can't! i feel i need to rush to know my sexuality but this is not option for me..
i don't know!!!maybe i was not lucky with the boys i had dated!...ok i had never want a guy and my feelings with the girls are stronger but not that sexual feeling!
So i am not sure about i am homosexual but i am sure that i'm into girls.. i think it's too hard for me to say I'm lez i feel i am not lez !! I Felt when i read ur comments that it is So clear i am lez Y u two think it's that clear!!?? it's not clear to me!!!
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I don't think your a lesbien, only you can figure out your sexuality. Talking to other people about how you feel should help though. Even if you are a lesbien or bi that wouldent be the end of the world I know a lot of people that are gay or bi and I don't consider that abnormal. It's possible that you just don't like the guys that you've dated and you havent met the right one. Personally I'm more atracted to guys but I am more likely to emotionally love a girl and I think I just need to meet the right girl before I can really be sexually atracted to her. Only you can really find out what your sexual orientation is, we can't tell you. You could try dating more feminine guys to see if you like them emotionally. Anyways good luck with everything I hope you get everything figured out.