Yes I know arousal gets to people and you do stuff you otherwise wouldn't. But I just think she should have stopped seeing me if she thought I was a bad temptation. She kept wanting to see me even though she knew ahead of time she would probably fall for me and eventually she did.
That's not how girls operate usually. She could just enjoy your company despite the fact that your interests are a risk. I'm in a similar situation. My coworker has a thing for me, hes pretty sexual like you. Well I'm simply not onto him that way. Hes attractive yes but I'm just not into him. He wants to hang and give me rides to work to lessen my uber burden during the winter but it's weird knowing his feelings.
Sounds like you 2 had history though. Why you men gotta ruin things by being sexual? You shoulda respected her not wanting it man.
All we had was intimacy though. After like the first two dates we would cuddle at the very least and often jot even talk much. She called us friends but always wanted to cuddle and make out. The first time we kissed she went for it not me. Caught me complete surprise. It's not like I've been pushing this along myself.
Well no shit it's her fault that she had sex with me.
The question is should I have been courteous and honored her request anyways. I still feel like that is the "better" thing to do even though I still may not be at fault.
Reverse consent iin? Did I do wrong to fuck her?
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Yes I know arousal gets to people and you do stuff you otherwise wouldn't. But I just think she should have stopped seeing me if she thought I was a bad temptation. She kept wanting to see me even though she knew ahead of time she would probably fall for me and eventually she did.
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That's not how girls operate usually. She could just enjoy your company despite the fact that your interests are a risk. I'm in a similar situation. My coworker has a thing for me, hes pretty sexual like you. Well I'm simply not onto him that way. Hes attractive yes but I'm just not into him. He wants to hang and give me rides to work to lessen my uber burden during the winter but it's weird knowing his feelings.
Sounds like you 2 had history though. Why you men gotta ruin things by being sexual? You shoulda respected her not wanting it man.
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All we had was intimacy though. After like the first two dates we would cuddle at the very least and often jot even talk much. She called us friends but always wanted to cuddle and make out. The first time we kissed she went for it not me. Caught me complete surprise. It's not like I've been pushing this along myself.
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Sounds like her own fault then. You got to remember women are crazy.
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Well no shit it's her fault that she had sex with me.
The question is should I have been courteous and honored her request anyways. I still feel like that is the "better" thing to do even though I still may not be at fault.