Wrong! Judge me please. You judge me in the comments when I don't want to know what people think of my decisions, but now is the time to say what you think! Was I wrong or no, if so, how wrong?
I always use condoms and pull out. Haven't nutted inside even with a condom on in a long ass time. Haven't gone in raw since the first girl I ever fucked. I'm paranoid about this shit I really am. I know their is still risk but I really do try to be safe.
Also, a lot of times I'll suggest we do kinky shit instead of vaginal. Taking turns tying eachother up and giving oral sex is SIGNIFICANTLY better than regular vaginal imo.
This isn't about you and I disagreeing on silly things, this is more concerning. but even so...
Well, if she consented, then she consented.
I am guessing you're concerned she is going to cry "rape". Given she chose to be alone with you in bed, and said "yes" when you asked to fuck, I would think it would be difficult for her to press any charges. Plus if she sleeps around like you say she does, that isn't going to help her case.
I really do not think you did anything wrong. Even the mere thought of something bad happening is enough to disturb someone.
The whole ghosting thing seems to be a real common tactic among the young today so I say try not to take it personal.
Now if I had a prospective romantic partner who wanted me to promise never to sleep with them, I would do them one better and never even communicate with them.
I would say in the future, if someone is wishy washy about sex, just cut ties. Nothing but drama will come of it and dealing with drama and worry is not worth some piece of ass.
I'm actually not terribly worried about rape allegations cause A, she has no evidence to stand on and B, she has slept around a lot before and C, we did fuck a few more times so she'd have to explain that somehow. There have been times in the past where I was a lot more worried trust me.
That's what a lot of people are saying they would do. Just cut ties.
I think the only reason I didn't is because I was enjoying seeing her so much already, even doing stuff totally in her boundaries. She was a great kisser and had amazing boobs to play with it was so great.
Reverse consent iin? Did I do wrong to fuck her?
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I am not judging if you are wrong or right, it is not my place.
What I want to know is - what happens one of these days when some whore you fuck gets pregnant or you get an STD?
Sooner or later your dick is going to get you in serious trouble.
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Wrong! Judge me please. You judge me in the comments when I don't want to know what people think of my decisions, but now is the time to say what you think! Was I wrong or no, if so, how wrong?
I always use condoms and pull out. Haven't nutted inside even with a condom on in a long ass time. Haven't gone in raw since the first girl I ever fucked. I'm paranoid about this shit I really am. I know their is still risk but I really do try to be safe.
Also, a lot of times I'll suggest we do kinky shit instead of vaginal. Taking turns tying eachother up and giving oral sex is SIGNIFICANTLY better than regular vaginal imo.
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This isn't about you and I disagreeing on silly things, this is more concerning. but even so...
Well, if she consented, then she consented.
I am guessing you're concerned she is going to cry "rape". Given she chose to be alone with you in bed, and said "yes" when you asked to fuck, I would think it would be difficult for her to press any charges. Plus if she sleeps around like you say she does, that isn't going to help her case.
I really do not think you did anything wrong. Even the mere thought of something bad happening is enough to disturb someone.
The whole ghosting thing seems to be a real common tactic among the young today so I say try not to take it personal.
Now if I had a prospective romantic partner who wanted me to promise never to sleep with them, I would do them one better and never even communicate with them.
I would say in the future, if someone is wishy washy about sex, just cut ties. Nothing but drama will come of it and dealing with drama and worry is not worth some piece of ass.
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I'm actually not terribly worried about rape allegations cause A, she has no evidence to stand on and B, she has slept around a lot before and C, we did fuck a few more times so she'd have to explain that somehow. There have been times in the past where I was a lot more worried trust me.
That's what a lot of people are saying they would do. Just cut ties.
I think the only reason I didn't is because I was enjoying seeing her so much already, even doing stuff totally in her boundaries. She was a great kisser and had amazing boobs to play with it was so great.