Revenge porn
Is it normal that I find it so alarming that the vast majority of so-called "revenge porn" victims don't even know what it actually is?
Revenge porn is when you piss someone off to the point where they plaster your intimate photos/videos all over the internet without asking you first, in order to cause as much devastation as possible to you, usually for infidelity reasons but ALWAYS for some sort of REVENGE. The clue is in the name!
If you didn't do anything and your break up was for reasons other than infidelity, then fine. Still, if there are intimate photos/videos of you on the internet, that is just "amateur porn" so please don't refer to it as anything it isn't. Your partner was a fucking douche for uploading those photos/videos without your permission, and should go to jail accordingly, but you are classifying wrongly.
If however you cheated on your partner and they caught you red handed, fucking someone else, then you absolutely deserve to be exposed in this manner in my opinion. It would be some sort of cathartic justice for the person you cheated on!