Respond to criticism

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Do you:

Interrupt when the other person is talking?
Make faces while they are talking?
Make passive-aggressive jabs instead of stating what you really think?
Withhold your true feelings out of fear?Pick apart every word a person is saying?Shutdown when confronted?
Assume the worst possible meaning?
Jump to conclusions without obtaining more information?
Believe that you already know what the other person is going to say without giving them a chance?
Interrogate a person with close-ended questions?
Miss body language clues?
Have conversations in your head but don’t say it to the other person?
Think about what you are going to say next while the other person is talking?
Not ask clarifying questions before talking?
Repeat back what the other person is saying before you make a point?
Allow your emotions such as anger, anxiety and guilt to override the conversation?
Not allow the other person to walk away when they are upset?
Not accept criticism without pointing out a flaw in the other person?
Not plan out ahead of time what you are going to say and the best way to say it?Quickly accept responsibility just to end the conversation?
Apologize even when you are not at fault?
Blame the other person for your emotional reaction?
Seek to find fault in the other person to avoid accountability?
Physically move away from the other person out of fear?
Physically move in closer when upset as a form of intimidation?
Pick at your skin, wring your hands, play with your hair, or other compulsive behaviors?
Avoid eye contact?Verbally threaten the other person to make a point?
Throw out ultimatums if the other person doesn’t agree with you?
Use sarcasm as a way of saying what you want or don’t want?
Give the other person only two options: yours and another extreme version?
Frequently remind the other person of how they have hurt you in the past?
Use the other person’s flaws, mistakes, or disorders against them?
Change the unresolved topic to something else when feeling uncomfortable?

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Based on 6 votes (2 yes)
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Comments ( 13 )
  • CozmoWank
    5 years ago

    I farted and it smelled like uncooked, marinated meat. I got hungry.

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    • bunnyhabit
      5 years ago

      typical for india piggies

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      • CozmoWank
        5 years ago

        But I didn't eat any India piggies.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago

    Lemme guess: you deal with people like the ones you're mentioning and they're a nightmare? Then don't bother with them.

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  • charli.m
    5 years ago

    That was a lot of questions.

    Did you have an actual point or did you just want to make a tl;dr list?

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Why, I blast my fist through their ribcage and rip out their still beating heart! As they lie there bleeding out, i butt fuck them while feasting on their flailing bones and flesh!

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    • bunnyhabit
      5 years ago

      get a life you pathetic narcissistic troll

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        Nawwwww I'm no troll!
        You guys just dont understand my morbid sense of humour -w-

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Whew! That is one comprehensive list of questions.

    Being receptive to constructive criticism is critical to our emotional development--especially when it comes from someone who loves and knows us well. A well adjusted adult is capable of reflective listening, and seeks to negotiate mutually acceptable terms of resolution without all of that drama.

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  • MasterChives
    5 years ago

    Oh nice sounds like me all over. I go further.

    I have a loaded gun in my waist where they can see it.

    I take it out and smack them about with it before even asking anything.

    Then I have my way with them.

    Only then, do i start with my demands. You gotta break them first.

    Works.. Everytime..

    I would know im a gynaecologist.

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  • c99999
    5 years ago

    the issue is you.

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  • matthewtheking
    5 years ago

    Do you:

    Get annoyed when someone asks you way too many questions?

    Yeah, I do.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    What REALLY pissed me off is when I am having a conversation with someone and a third person comes along and starts talking to the person I am talking to like I wasn't even there. It's infuriating!!

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