A sophomore in college? That gives you an ample amount of time to start getting what you want in life from now on and still catch-up with those you perceive to be ahead in the game.
If you are a naturally introverted person, it would be completely normal that it might take a bit longer to find like minded people who would take the time to get to know you and share the kinds of interests you have.
My suggestion is that you take some time to find out what student activities are being organized on the campus. If you see something that you would like to do, then go to it, and go because you are looking to have fun and meet people (not necessarily to find a girlfriend). Then get into conversations and small-talk, be friendly, don't take things too seriously. Things should take off from there and hopefully you'll be feeling better about things and maybe even find someone you're crazy about, who's just as into you. If by the end of the next semester you are still feeling down, then you might want to see a specialist; perhaps there are other things going on in your life that are contributing to things being the way they are now.
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A sophomore in college? That gives you an ample amount of time to start getting what you want in life from now on and still catch-up with those you perceive to be ahead in the game.
If you are a naturally introverted person, it would be completely normal that it might take a bit longer to find like minded people who would take the time to get to know you and share the kinds of interests you have.
My suggestion is that you take some time to find out what student activities are being organized on the campus. If you see something that you would like to do, then go to it, and go because you are looking to have fun and meet people (not necessarily to find a girlfriend). Then get into conversations and small-talk, be friendly, don't take things too seriously. Things should take off from there and hopefully you'll be feeling better about things and maybe even find someone you're crazy about, who's just as into you. If by the end of the next semester you are still feeling down, then you might want to see a specialist; perhaps there are other things going on in your life that are contributing to things being the way they are now.
best of luck to you!