Regretting having sexually abused someone?

Is it normal to regret having sexually abused someone?

Normal, and I had that myself (victim) 12
Normal, and I had that myself (abuser) 7
Normal, and I heard of that 31
Not normal, but I had that myself (victim) 1
Normal, but I had that myself (abuser) 3
Not normal, but I heard of that 10
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Comments ( 23 )
  • Azaman

    I think it would be very normal for someone to regret that, especially those that have now been labeled a sex offender for life. I don't think it'd be normal to not regret that, however it would be even more normal to not have sexual abused anyone in the first place

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    • scooogy

      How quick do you think does an abuser regret what he/she did?

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      • Ellenna

        Some never regret it and excuse it by saying the child wanted it or enjoyed it or it was for the child's own good.

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      • Azaman

        I guess I'd know better if I had sexually abused someone, my guess would be shortly after it was over. You should give more details to your story..

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        • scooogy

          My sister once managed me and her being alone in her room in the morning when she got out of the shower, so she jumped with her butt onto my face.

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          • MichaelMyersindarkness

            Thats a load of bollocks.

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            • scooogy

              Believe whatever you like to

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  • bittermayonnaise

    Are we aloud to confess crimes on here?

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    • wigz

      I stoled it.

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    • Azaman

      Lol, does it matter?

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  • Rusty-Rider

    Sheep very seldom hold grudges.
    Don't let it destroy your life.

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  • IMissMary

    I was dumped by a girl because I "DIDN'T" abuse her...she said if I cared about her I would "Put Her In Check" physically. Basically she wanted me to slap her.

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    • Ellenna

      That's not abuse if she wanted it: by definition, abuse is not consensual

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      • IMissMary

        Guess I should have slapped the shit out of her then...in hindsight I regret not slapping her..:-(

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        • smackthelittlefatty

          I bet you do. I would have slapped her hard and would have slammed her around for days. My type of girl. LMFAO

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          • smackthelittlefatty

            I need to find her or someone who likes getting smacked around

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  • dick555

    My ex wife was abused sexually by her father. But after a couple of years, she became addicted to sex and needed him more than he needed her. It started when she was 13 and he did her about once a week during the school year. During the summer, he sent his wife off to visit family members. He did my ex twice a day every day. By the time she was 15, she needed to have sex often, very often. It started out as abuse and ended up as a need and want.

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    • scooogy

      In a way my case was similar for several years, although it wasn't fulfilled.

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      • dick555

        In what ways?

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        • scooogy

          I got addicted to the feeling and craved for a girl to sit on my face like i had it before

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          • dick555

            Who did you do this with in the past? How old was she?

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  • wigz

    I hope it's normal!

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  • mysistersshadow

    Yes completely normal.

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