Receiving oral sex BEFORE or AFTER intercourse?

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  • TerryVie can i ask u something?
    first i am lesbian (no experiment with a girl yet)
    my feeling for my lover is kissing each other,touching but no feeling for her genitals except using my hands if i will us my mouth it will be wearing underwear i would like to do that but i feel oral is disgusting, but i don't mind if she did oral to me.. i would like it i think!! is oral something important in lesbians life??

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    • haha, ya, it's funny that i completely left that out. When i read "intercourse" i automatically considered it to be a male+female protagonist-question.

      As for the importance of oral: Maybe slightly more so than in a heterosexual partnership, but there's the same spectrum of different views.
      What i'm trying to say: Some people don't really care about it, some don't want it, some love it and desire it. I think if and how a person enjoys giving or receiving oral is a very individual thing.

      It's harsh to find it disgusting, especially if you never really tried? But what IS true is that we do taste quite differently. Some girls have a good taste and smell and make you want to bury your whole face between their legs, and others you wonder how to switch to something else without being too obvious the moment you start.

      So again, not only invididual thing about each person, but quite possibly also influenced by the potential partners.

      Long story short: Sexuality is important in every partnership. Oral MAY play a more prominent role in lesbian life, but by no means HAS to. Matter of fact, i love manual stimulation(fingers) best. It can be done in almost every environment, can be done quite quickly, leads to a wonderful chemical release nonetheless and doesn't "require" anything of me.
      (But again, thats something individual. Not to let the last sentence be misunderstood, i LOVE giving, but sometimes, it's also very nice to ONLY give or ONLY receive, and focus utterly on oneself or the partner)

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