I wouldn't see it as blackmail. I have always had a policy of expecting and even demanding equality with regard to intimacy. I never do anything for anyone sexually that he isn't will to return nor do I accept sexual favors that I do not wish to return. I basically find unreciprocated sex to be a real turn off and a deal breaker in my life.
I think it's important that you love and respect yourself first and foremost, my brother.
I guess for me it wouldn't be blackmail, because if someone expects to get from me without giving to me I'm completely turned off by that person's lack of love and respect for me.
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I wouldn't see it as blackmail. I have always had a policy of expecting and even demanding equality with regard to intimacy. I never do anything for anyone sexually that he isn't will to return nor do I accept sexual favors that I do not wish to return. I basically find unreciprocated sex to be a real turn off and a deal breaker in my life.
I think it's important that you love and respect yourself first and foremost, my brother.
I guess for me it wouldn't be blackmail, because if someone expects to get from me without giving to me I'm completely turned off by that person's lack of love and respect for me.